I Love to Ride

There is something immensely satisfying about movement in masturbation. Is it anatomical or simply  more satisfying as an involved experience? Lying on your back (or front) and working a sex toy against your body does the trick but any movement involving pelvic thrusts just does the trick. We first encountered a purpose built rocking sex toy with the Rock ChickVibrator many moons ago, which felt like learning to ride a bike but was rewarding once an individual technique was mastered. Although the Rock Chick remains a firm favourite of ours, times change and with it the arrival of the dual stimulating rocking ride of the iRide hands free sex toy for those that like masturbation that works up a sweat.
iRide has the same dual stimulation concept but has worked this design into a saddle to ride. There is a 4" 'phallic' insertion on the top of the saddle with clitoral nub to the front for massage of the labia. Thinking back to pony riding days the basic riding techniques can be applied to this vibrating saddle. Rising trot works the internal shaft with a base sturdy enough to squeeze with the thighs, a brisk canter works the vibration into thighs, clitoris and vagina whilst a gentle walk tilts the pelvis along the saddle body taking advantage of the highest level of vibration.
Tilting the pelvis takes full advantage of the sensitivity of the clitoris and massaging the entire length against the ridge of iRide leaves no stimulating nerve ending untouched.
The hands free part of this toy also allows you to concentrate on other areas of your body or your partners. The next time you promise some oral pleasure to your partner hop on the iRide and it will make the experience so much more interesting!

iRide 

Adrien Lastic Arrives

We know it sounds like an extra flexible European Porn Star but Adrien Lastic is actually a new sex toy brand which we have become very excited about indeed. For us the premise of this European range of sex toys is quality at affordable prices which in a time of cutbacks, consolidation and generally watching the pennies allows a quality conscious purchase inside a budget most people can afford. Many of us are looking for cheaper options hopefully without compromising the standards that we enjoy too much and Adrien Lastic balance the current conundrum of price/quality which results in some fabulous and affordable adult toys.
So far we have the Thrusting Rabbit, Love balls, Remote Control eggs of differing sizes, Anal Beads,Vibrating Cock Rings and Trifun a G-Spot Dildo akin to Funfactory's Curve (with a little extra buzz on the side).
Most of the product is made from Silicone and all materials are hypoallergenic and body safe. The silicone is soft, smooth and seam free with a solidity to the core which holds the beads, dildos and vibrating eggs firmly during penetration and massage.
Packaging is fresh and modern and doesn't cut corners in order to bring the right price to the store.
The noise level is low on vibrating toys and Adrien Lastic develop their own technologies which team reliability with performance, this is no half hearted attempt at a sex toy range!
We hope to add to their ever growing selection of female and couple friendly sex toys and pay homage to a company which is offering something useful to the adult market instead of renegading safe and reliable toys to an unachievable wish list.

Adrien Lastic G Spot Dildo's

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Oh Mi Bod Club Vibe:The remix of pleasure

If you unwrapped a MP3 this Christmas you will be interested to know that it will stimulate more of your senses than first imagined.

Thanks to Oh Mi Bods latest creation your play list could become your 'O' list with a sudden interest in thrash metal if Shostakovich was your cup of tea.

The Club Vibe comes as a smooth mini bullet vibe with controller pad & black panties. The bullet vibe slips into the panty pocket which leaves you with 3 choices on the vibrators function.

Music Mode: This setting operates the vibe with the music playing on your i phone, i pod or any MP3. The buzz operates with the beat in a fusion of music listening pleasure, dictated by your rhythmic choice. The controller pad has to clip on to your body if mobile but the Club Vibe could be taken on the tube ride in - commuting has never felt so good!

Ambient Mode: The Club Vibe vibrates to the sounds around you. A fab setting for couples play whereby your lovers voice has never sounded so good or a brilliant addition to this years festival's improving the sounds in a cornucopia of sensual delight (we suspect a week off work would be needed more than ever)

Manual Mode: If you enjoy Sex toys the manual way choose the manual mode and there are 7 vibration patterns to choose from via the control pad.

Oh MI Bod Club Vibe is a must for any music/gadget lover

(My sister blagged one for a Lost Prophets concert and reported that Ian Watkins never looked so good!)

Kegel Exercises

Kegel exercises were devised by Arnold Kegel for the purpose of regaining pelvic muscle function in post natal women. As well as improving sexual enjoyment after childbirth Kegel exercise can improve overall enjoyment of sex. Fancy reaching orgasm quicker than before and enjoying a better climax or have you ever tried stimulating your partners penis during penetration just with your vaginal muscles?, Kegel exercises can enable that level of muscle manipulation and before you know it shooting ping pong balls across the room will be within your grasp!

The PC Muscle runs between the pubic and tail bone in both sexes and are the muscles you would commonly use to hold on to your wee if your bladder is full and you are trying to find a loo. Practising at holding your urine stream whilst on the toilet is a good way to start. Gradually build up the number of squeezes that you do daily and don't worry about finding a special time to do it as nobody knows what you are doing. Try 3 sets of 10 squeezes building to 3 sets of 20 and you will start to feel the results within a couple of weeks. Don't go for the maximum squeeze you can manage keep it relaxed and hold each squeeze for about 3 seconds.

Men will also benefit from Kegel exercise and it will improve the chances of multiple orgasm which is less common in males. Once you have exercised for a month or so you may even be able to lift a hand towel with your semi-erect penis!

Kegel toys are less sex toys and more exercise aids, think of them as dumb bells for the vaginal muscles. It is often easier to clench your muscles around something as the resistance can be felt and your partners penis is the perfect tool or a kegel exerciser or love ball. The Smartballs from Funfactory sex toys offers two weighted balls for stimulating movement or the Teneo which is a single ball for squeezing.

New In The Kokeshi Massager

Kokeshi Dolls were originally hand crafted by Kijiya craftsmen in the Miyagi Prefecture of Japan.

It is understood that the Kokeshi Doll was given as a gift to visitors who came to bathe in the hot springs during the Edo period.

Big Tease Toys have taken the concept of the Kokeshi Doll and created the Kokeshi massager an intimate massager with three speeds that can be taken into your own hot tub. The massager comes in either male or female design and is super quiet and powerful

The design has real Kawaii appeal and is definately the most discreet sex toy we have seen. The surface of the Kekeshi massager is smooth and soft to the touch and when warmed in the palm of your hand delivers delicious vibrations to the clitoris and nipples.

Whether you are a beginner to sex toys and want a non-threatening vibrator to begin your pleasure quest or need a vibe that can be stood on the dressing table with ease then the Kokeshi Massager would be a great stocking filler this Christmas.

Clit Stim Squeeze

Most women find that clitoral stimulation is the most effective way of achieving orgasm. If you want some variation in your masturbation routine take a look at our clitoral massage techniques and take some time to find your favourite route to an earth-shaking orgasm.

A favourite of ours is the Clit Stim Squeeze which as a masturbation technique involves a greater degree of movement to reach orgasm. Take a bullet vibe or slightly longer clitoral vibrator such as the discretion vibrator. Place the vibe between your legs against the outer length of the inner lips (basically the area you would focus on during usual clitoral massage). Close your legs and lie on your side for maximum movement. Squeeze against the vibrator whilst rocking your pelvis back and forth, squeezing your pelvic muscles as you would when building on orgasm. The rubbing against the vibrator will lead to climax and leave your hands free for nipple play too!

This squeezing technique can also be used directly after orgasm for a double whammy that usually leads to another climax in succession. The trick is to do it straight away whilst the sensitive pulsation remains in your clitoris.

You can also adopt this technique during the spoons position with your partner whereby penetration and clitoral massage can be enjoyed simultaneously.

Pumping the PC Muscles

Eat 5 fruit and veg a day, exercise 3 times a week, Drink 6 glasses of water a day, the last thing we need is another piece of advice and another weekly chore in a lifestyle regime. Why bother exercising the Pelvic Floor muscles at all, they can't be seen and who the hell is going to benefit from all that work? Well if there is one thing that will benefit your sex life and continue a satisfying level of sensation during penetration and orgasm into your later years its the kegel exercise.

The PC Muscles form a figure of eight shape with one loop around the vagina and the other around the anus. These muscles tend to weaken with age (as all muscles do) and after childbirth when a considerable amount of pressure has been experienced on your pelvic area.

Every woman would benefit from kegel exercise and you don't need to don a lycra ensemble with designer trainers to work out, you can do them anywhere without anybody noticing. Use Funfactory Smartballs or Lelo Luna Beads at home for pleasurable kegel exercise or incorporate your pelvic squeeze into your sexual experience by making the point to tighten your muscles around your partners penis, your dildo or vibrator.

Here are some quick and easy 'anytime' pelvic floor exercisers, do them on the tube, bus or whilst driving to work they will pay dividends:

• Locate your PC Muscles by tightening your muscles as you would if you were holding on to a wee or wind. Try to tighten the length of your under carriage from anus to tip of the clitoris.


• Do a series of quick squeezes by clenching hard and releasing to the count of 3


• Follow this pattern of pelvic squeeze for a repeat of 10, focusing on feeling the anal sphincter really tighten.


• Slow down the pattern for a series of 5 long inhale/exhale clenches in time with a long breath, control the squeeze in both directions.


• Remember to actually push the muscles out when releasing the squeeze as if bearing down.


• Repeat this series of exercises every day on the way into and home from work and your orgasms will be stronger and penetration feel more pleasurable.

The Diffusion Technique

Vibrators are the most effective sex toys as a tool for masturbation or an orgasmic aid to intercourse. The vibrations provide a stimulus that make every nerve ending stand to attention and can induce climax in record time. If your clitoris is particularly sensitive or it becomes sensitive at particular times of the month you can try keeping your panties on for masturbation. Simply slide your clitoral vibrator along the side of your inner labia and massage towards the centre of your clitoris using the material as a buffer zone. The vibrations can be felt but won't have your nerve ending twitching right down to your toes.

Similarly when approaching orgasm and arousal levels are at their maximum the vibrator can become too much stimulation, especially through the climax itself. During orgasm try the 'diffusion method' of placing two or three fingers between your vibrator and clitoris continuing to massage in your particular style. The vibration level will be softer and enable you to enjoy the waves of contraction while maintaining direct clitoral contact.

The Sausage Roll

If the thought of male masturbators makes you think of dismembered torsos and grotesque alien like latex creations, it may be time to take another look. Amongst the plethora of sex toys available the male section now houses some pretty attractive erotic accessories and masturbators can also make great couples sex toys, which can be incorporated into foreplay or used on your man as a masturbatory treat. Get him to put his feet up whilst you work a bit of masturbator magic, perhaps restraining him while you dominate proceedings or playing his favourite porn clip for sheer erotic indulgence.
A great technique for use with a male masturbator is the sausage roll. Take a soft penis sleeve masturbator of choice and apply plenty of sex lubricant. This is essential as the tug of the sex toy without a smooth slide can be painful on the sensitive skin of the penis particularly around the head.
Gently slip the penis inside, taking care to concentrate lube at the opening which is usually tight. Put your hands either side of the penis sleeve and roll it between your palms (which is why lots of lubricant is essential). Once you have built up a rolling rhythm introduce the masturbation move of an up and down stroke, this might feel tricky at first but the sensation will be amazing as the masturbator massages the penis and rolls around the sensitive areas of the foreskin.

Simultaneous lovin

If rabbit vibrators have never been your sex toy of choice but you love the feeling of dual stimulation then adapt your dildo for double pleasure. Simply take a vibrating cock ring and place it over your dildo to the base as you would a penis during intercourse . Gently work the strokes with your dildo to maximise the contact of the vibrator against the clitoris. If you use a g spot sex toy the tip can be massaged against your pleasure spot without pulling the vibrating ring too far from your clitoral area. The feeling of fullness in the vagina whilst enjoying the nerve tingling sensation of clitoral stimulation can bring you to climax before you say bin that bunny.

Sex Toy Tester Wanted

Wanted: Sex Toy Tester for the Sysil Edge

The sex toy manufacturer Mantric have launched a revolution in strap on sex toy. How is the Sysil Edge different from other strap on's? It has a patent pending Flexeloc Smart System that allows the penetrating dildo of the strap on to be adjusted, complementing your sex position perfectly.

Many strap on designs do not allow the wearer to realistically simulate sex, as Mantric points out many protrude high above the pubic bone where the projection of the penis wouldn't naturally originate. Sysil Edge hangs lower than other strap ons and adjusts to suit most sexual positions. This patent pending system simulates the natural thrust of sex in any position from the correct angle whether used for vaginal or anal penetration.

What else appears to be different? The phallus on the Edge is very different from the norm and as far away from a real penis as you can get. If you are looking for a double ended non-phallic sex toy the Edge seems to be a great choice.

Sysil Edge is silicone, phthalate free and has a removable vibrating bullet for cleaning.

We believe in taking a new sex toy and testing it out for ourselves and there is a chance for a couple to be a part of this process. We are looking for partners to take the Sysil Edge and put it through its paces. An honest appraisal is required to some simple questions and a lucky couple get to have much fun in the meantime!

To test the Sysil Edge simply email angelina@theboudoir.net with your details.

Sex & Ice

Ice has long been used during sex play for its stimulating sensation,
a juxtaposition of extreme cold and the extreme heat of your body. Running an ice cube over the most sensitive areas of a woman's body heightens sensation and arousal, the perfect tool for caressing the buttocks, neck, thighs, nipples and clitoris. Sex toys such as glass and Pyrex dildos can be chilled for those that desire icy cold stimulus on skin but what about the worlds first vibrating ice massager?

The Touche ice massager is a sex toy with a difference, incorporating the thrilling sensations of ice with the stimulation of a vibrator all rolled in one. The ice container can be separated from the silicone grip to fill with water and replaced to pop in the freezer until solid. When ready the ice holder can be slid off, a bit like making a kids ice lolly, with the exception of the vibrating bullet which is inserted back into the sex toy when ready. As your temperature rises the contrast of ice, silicone and vibrating bullet won't cool you down.
Remember that this icy sex toy needs adequate time to prepare (about 4 hours) so pop it back in the freezer after each use hidden behind the frozen peas!

Utopia

Its always great when a sex toy comes along that causes a stir with the girls in the office and since its arrival we have all been getting very excited about Utopia.

When it comes to Rabbit Vibrators the Thruster Rabbit has long been our biggest selling toy.

Its appeal as a pumping vibrator with clitoral stimulation has not waned since it crashed through the doors of The Boudoir many moons ago.

Utopia is a thruster with a difference in that the seven rows of internal beads do two different things.

This ladies, is a multi tasking vibrator to take dual stimulation to another dimension.

The first larger beads at the head of the thruster simultaneously thrust and rotate whilst the lower row of four beads thrusts at the entrance to the vagina.

Team this with the vibrating ears for clitoral stimulation and you have a cocktail of sensation to blow you away!

We had a resounding yes or rather "yes, yes, YES" from our testers and we are sure Utopia will be a firm favourite for a while to come.

The Dildo Debate

Here at the office this afternoon we have had the great dildo debate (well its nearly a long weekend). After much deliberating we have formed two distinct factions, the soft or solid groups.

Now we all want our dildos hard as ultimately that's the aim of the game but the great divide occurs when it comes down to the material used. Jelly, latex and rubber dildos are soft & tactile but being porous are harder to keep clean and absorb lubricant at a much faster rate. "Wait" cried the softies (hence forth named) Silicone dildos are gloriously soft and skin like, will warm to your body temperature in a flash, contain no chemicals and can be put in the dishwasher for a super duper sterile hot wash.

The solids argue that glass dildos have similar qualities being hypoallergenic, non-porous and dishwasher safe. The glass dildo can also be cooled as well as warmed and they get the aesthetes vote with their array of beautiful colours and swirls. Ceramic and wooden dildos are also more of a sensual art form and are extremely durable if cared for properly. The seasoned dildo users argue that the solid dildo is better at reaching the g spot as the harder material applies better pressure to our pleasure zone.

Hard, soft which dildo do you prefer?

The Vagina Doctor Juicing Her Mangos

Samantha Bachman (AKA The Vagina Doctor) has been travelling the globe for many years working on behalf women in third world countries in relation to vaginal hygiene, sex education and menstrual issues.

Her journey into Africa introduced her to the practice of female genital mutilation and so began her global action to bring attention to, and erase this barbaric practise.

What better way to grab our attention than with The Mango Juicer, a sex toy like no other, able to juice mango's and juice your mango with its effective G Spot curve to the tip. Its cunning disguise enables its transit into countries where religious and cultural belief prevents the use of sex toys and female masturbation.

Profits are donated to charities working towards eradicating the practice of female genital mutilation so a much worthy purchase for any supporter of human rights and juicing mango's.

iCome MP3 Vibrator

'If music be the food of love play on' how times have changed when music can now be the source of orgasmic pleasure. You suspect that Duke Orsino may have got his girl had he presented her with an iCome vibrator that pleases the lady with rhythmic waves of vibrating pleasure by buzzing to the beat.

The iCome vibrator plugs into either a MP3, PC or CD Player and delivers vibrations in synch with your music of choice. Whether you opt for Mozart or Metallica raising the volume or changing the tune will alter the vibration pattern.

Who's knows it may dictate a complete change in musical taste - thrash metal it is then!

The Male Pleasure Spot

If there is one type of sex toy that we have seen grow in popularity over the past few years its the prostate stimulator. Most of us have heard of the prostate & it seems that many are discovering its pleasure giving properties. Where us ladies have long been experimenting with the glorious G, couples are certainly getting comfortable with the P spot & its route to male orgasmic pleasure

Where is it? If he's isn't comfortable with anal penetration then stimulating the prostate will be difficult as its located a few centimetres up the front rectal wall. A lubricated finger inserted to this length is enough to apply pressure to the prostate gland & when in full swing can elevate his orgasm to knee trembling proportions.

When it comes to toys take your pick. Most sex toy manufacturers have developed a prostate toy of some description & our two favourite picks are Rocks Off who have introduced & expanded a range of prostate vibrators to suit the beginner to professional P massager & Nexus who have become masters of this male erogenous zone.

We have noticed lots of couples adopting this sex toy for enjoyment together & it can be incorporated into intercourse, oral sex or as part of role play.

Our favourite Prostate Massagers:

Nexus Excel - The first & most popular prostate toy

Rude Boy - Can you be?

P Spot - A mighty effort from Tantus

Bob - Designer P Spot massage from Lelo

Its the sex toy delivery boy

A Chicago based sex toy retailer have introduced a one hour sex toy delivery by bicycle. Yes you can call the Kinky llama who will fulfill your sexual requirements within 60 minutes.

The project was initiated by the owner after the desire to add spice to a night in with his girlfriend. Anthony Mikrut stated " You can get pizza any time of the night, why can't you get toys?" Mr Mikrut we agree and applaud you for your very convenient saucy service & green mode of sex toy dispatch. Not surprisingly most of his customers are women, well when the fancy takes us!

Real Feel versus Plastic Fantastic

We would like to see Harry Hill pit the realistic sex toy against the new female, airport scanner, mother in law just saw my clit stim on the bathroom shelf friendly sex toys that are a plenty in the adult market.

In his satirical show we would like to see Harry introduce the realistic dildo from one door & the smooth lines of a discreet 'pebble' creation from the other & see the carnage ensue as we all yell 'fight'.

Its a hard choice do you prefer the vein popping, realistic 8 inch with every manly detail in its full glory or shiny 'pleasure object' your mother would probably dust & place on the mantelpiece mistaking it as your latest purchase from the John Lewis home department?

There are benefits to both types of sex toy & discretion has to be on the side of the sex toy creation with innocent styling. The scanner at Heathrow would hardly notice the Lelo Nea passing through baggage control but the Prince Charming dildo is going to look like a cock in your case whichever way you turn it. The realistic sex toy has to win in the getting down & dirty stakes though as the realistic dildo makes a sexy prop for fantasy play or turning your partner on in foreplay. If you both fantasise about you (or your man) being taken by a huge male member the small pink vibrating butterfly just doesn't provide the erotic aesthetics, whereas the natural dildo will provide the necessary visuals to have you both wet.

Designer chic over detailed dildo, pulsating pleasure object over vein popping penis its a hard choice but we would say both have their place in the bedroom & why limit yourself to one genre when you can try them all!

The best of both: Cupids Finger Tingler Airport friendly sex toy

Lipstick Vibrator Handbag safe

Brush Bunny Hotel bathroom friendly

Boy Wonder Realistic dildo with vibrations

Mr Perfect The perfect Realistic proportions