Don't Forget The Foreplay

Its easy to forget, foreplay demands a little more time than a furious fumble before sex and sleep amongst our time deficient demanding week days. Foreplay occurs long before hitting the sack, think of it as warming the motor, letting the wine breathe before tasting, a before play that improves sexual enjoyment and builds to female climax that takes more time and attention. Foreplay builds sexual excitement and anticipation in your mind, the greatest erogenous zone at our disposal.

Why bother with Foreplay?

When time is poor its a delicious feeling to begin caressing and touching your partner knowing that you have to dash out of the door for the day. Building sexual tension before you depart leaves a lingering sexual urge that you can both resume later in the day. Keep the spark alive by sending a couple of text messages during the day letting them know what you want to do to them.

Foreplay is a good indicator of how your partner wants to have sex. Grabbing a wrist for instant clitoral stimulation or placing directly on your lovers cock suggests a sense of urgency whilst avoiding the genital area and indulging in tender kisses suggests a more languid pace.

Foreplay can be very important to the overall sexual act and your enjoyment of it. It is said that women need 20-30 minutes of stimulation to orgasm (don't count using vibrators in this equation) and foreplay can make the difference between achieving climax or not. Some men need longer to ejaculate or in the case of premature ejaculation foreplay allows a longer period of gratification and build up before penetration.

Foreplay keeps the spark alive, flirting and even full open mouthed dirty kissing are often neglected after a few years of routine and comfort. Kissing, caressing, throwing over that naughty look you used to give all remind you both how much you turn each other on.

Valentines fast approaching so why not devote some serious time to foreplay, the occasion call for it, Enjoy!