Sex & Surveys

I have never been asked to take part in a survey in my life so am always dubious when the so called stats from a survey are published that are supposed to represent my opinion.

According to Clear blues survey (yes the pregnancy testing people hardly inspiring sexy thoughts especially as I have three children) a massive 41% of women are not satisfied with the amount of sex they are having.

I wonder is this due to their own motivational issues?

Lets face it in general the men in our lives have to be beaten off with a big stick at times & never waiver on the invitation of some bedroom antics.

How do you up the sexual motivation? Put it first for a start. If you expect to feel horny after dinner, washing up, eastenders, making packed lunches, online shopping etc then that's wishful thinking. Create ambiance in the bedroom to evoke passion & introduce items to encourage foreplay & quality time. Massage candles are a recent introduction by many of the luxury adult goods manufacturers & are fabulous for quality Boudoir fun. Encourage your partner to explore your erogenous zones with sexual enhancers & nipple gels, you don't need an arsenal of sex toys to focus on your sex life just time & motivation. Enjoy!

Concentrate on the clitoris ladies (& gents)

How many women reportedly experience orgasm through penetration alone?

22%

So what are the other 78% doing or more to the point what should you be doing?

Concentrating on the clitoris is the answer. The clitoris is a pure pleasure spot, the only place on the body with no other function than to provide pleasure, so don't ignore it.

95% of women report regularly achieving orgasm through clitoral stimulation & clitoral vibrators are designed to enhance & improve the climax for women. Another good aid to clitoral massage are sexual enhancer for the female anatomy perfect for increasing blood flow & sensitivity to this pleasure spot.

Arousal gel is a topical application which certainly increases sensitivity to touch, great for the times of the month when it all seems less perky down there!

Sex Toy Sale Frenzy

The sale frenzy is upon us & retailers are offering massive discounts this year but are you a savvy shopper?

The best buys are higher priced items of better quality with massive discounts this year. We have all been feeling the pinch & luxury sex toys, branded adult goods & high end erotic accessories have not been flying off the shelves this year in our attempt to watch the pennies.

The Pick of our best bargains include the Mantric Sensual series with rock bottom prices for a phthalate free, quality product. Try the Fleurie vibrator for a larger size vibe, Fantasie Clitoral Vibrator for interchangeable fun & the sensuel vibrator for classic vibrations in platinum cured silicone. Crazy prices at £9.99 & really stretching your money as far as it will go!!

Jimmyjane Designer Sex Toys

We have seen our fair share of designer sex toys in The Boudoir office over the past years & the adult industry now has 'high end' manufacturers choosing superior materials, investing in design & packaging adult goods to be sold as a luxury goods.

Sex Toys in boxes coveted much like designer shoes or bags, luring you ladies with the spending power & high expectation to match the high price tag.

It was my birthday & yes I used my staff discount to buy myself a form 6 by Jimmyjane, this baby will set you back £115 & was still a considerable investment for me.

Did it scream quality? Yes the feel of the material & seamless design does remind you of its superior manufacture when its in your hand.

Does the actual vibration give you more? Well yes it was deeply penetrating & less in the hand than radiating from it.

Could I tell from a blindfolded test that this product sells for £115? Yes I could but I am an avid collector of sex toys & have recognised the deeper vibration on cheaper sex toys.

Overall the toy is built to last a lifetime literally & I would be happy to keep it in my drawer for that time. Sure I will have my dalliance with cheaper fun items when the mood takes me but essentially like that expensive pair of shoes with the hideous price tag it will take pride of place in my collection & give me the feel good factor every time it comes out of the box.

Increased Sexual Fun For Couples

Fancy that an alternative to viagra with no side effects which can be used by both men & women.

Viagel is a product that claims to be just that & its new couples sachet caters for both partners looking to up the libido stakes!

Users simply rub the gel onto the pubic area to experience increased arousal, sensitivity, stronger, longer orgasms & a faster return of sexual appetite.

We have seen the Viagel couples sachets take the couples sex toys section by storm with lots of recommendations from men & women alike.

As its not a pill to swallow smaller doses are absorbed meaning no side effects of Viagra, also the absorption in the skin via a trans dermal delivery gives results within minutes. The science part of Viagel entails two groups of ingredients. The first signals dilation & the second helps the widening of blood capillaries & blood flow. Viagel has been approved by the MRHA & TSA & is the perfect couples companion.

RO80mm Ammunition For Love Bullet

Occasionally a sex toy comes along & we can't keep the shelves stocked high enough.

Rocks- Off's RO80 Ammunition for Love Bullet is such a toy. It has been described as the worlds most powerful vibrating bullet but most of the new sex toys we stock come with tag lines a plenty in a marketing agencies attempt to create the next vibrating sensation.

This bullet lives up to its hype it won the 2008 Erotic industries award for Best Adult Product & we can most definately confirm that you ladies (& gents) absolutely love it.

Waterproof, sleek & extremely powerful the Love Bullet is the ideal clitoral vibrator. It vibrates comfortably against the outer lips due to its slim torpedo shape & priced at about the £10 mark you can afford to invest in the chrome, black & purple editions. Enjoy!

Organic Lubricant for the health conscious

We have loved the arrival of Sliquids Organic Sex Lubricant here at The Boudoir.
Many of us have found that conventional lubricant can irritate especially at certain times of the month, yet on using Sliquids organic lube there are no nasty side effects.
Did you know that many of the main cosmetic companies still use nasties such as parabens (a group of chemicals whereby the juries out on their cancer promoting properties) in their branded products.
Sliquid contains no chemicals, parabens, glycerin & contains organic certified botanicals. The most female & earth friendly lubricant on the planet!
Oh & the bottle is 100% recyclable with the label printed on partially recycled stock.
Highly recommended by The Boudoir girls in our sex lubricant section.