Boudoir Sex Toys Blog

Low Libido?

2012-01-03T15:48:00.000Z

It can be incredibly difficult in a relationship to synchyour libidos. Lots of times the urge to have sex depends on stress levels,hormones, time of life and fitness levels. All too often one of the partnershipfeels horny whilst the other would rather grab a cuppa and catch up with theirfavourite soap on the sofa. Part of the success of a relationship is down tophysical intimacy and sexual bonding so what should you do if you are feelingamorous when your partner isn’t?

During prolonged periods of lost libido it’s not unusual forone of the couple to turn to masturbation or self pleasure and this is fine aslong as it’s not the only outlet for sexual pleasure and tension. If you do notfeel up to a full sexual act its actually incredibly bonding to carry out themanual method of pleasure for your partner. It may lead to sex or it may notbut the main point is that there is an element of sharing when it comes to theintimate act. Just because you are not feeling horny yourself it doesn’t haveto mean that you don’t want your partner to enjoy an orgasm.

Using props such as a clitoral vibrator for her or a malemasturbator for him can add an extra stimulus and take away from the routinenature of the job. Don’t be shy about experimenting with all types of sexualrelease; your partner will enjoy it all the more if you lend a hand toproceedings.

It might be that you both need extra stimulus to bringyou around to the same timeline when it comes to sexual urges. Using eroticfiction or porn can be a fabulous way of getting you in the mood and thinkingabout sex more inevitably prompts more sex. Try plugging in your headphones onthe train ride into work with some naughty fiction playing or indulge in somesexy music. Wear stockings when you would ordinarily throw on the tights andremember to spray a little perfume after your shower. Often it’s a culminationof small but significant things that help to make you feel sexy and it could dothe trick in you both wanting an early night!

PicoBong

2011-11-03T18:01:00.001Z

No it’s not the latest craze in virtual pet or Japaneseanimation, PicoBong is a rather funky selection of high-end sex toys fromdesigner Grand Daddy Lelo.

How are these luxury vibes different from the rest?

The PicoBong range has all the appeal of it’s Lelo cousinsbut with a funky fresh approach and presentation that has a youthful image andplayful humour.

The PicoBong range currently at The Boudoir comprises of IPOa finger vibrator, TANO a plug vibe, KOA a couples vibrating ring and MAHANA adouble-ended vibrator for twice the pleasure.

The theme seems to be a very quiet motor inside a smoothsilicone shaft, which resembles a hybrid bullet & egg vibe. The power fromthe bullet is amazing (so I’m told) and the formula is extended to various sextoy incarnations including something for couples, the g spot, self-pleasure andanal stimulation, these kind people think of everything.

Each PicoBong toy has 12 vibration patterns capable of multispeeds so there really is a function for everyone. Unlike many of the mostrecent lelo vibrators, PicoBong sex toys require a single AAA battery and arenot re-chargeable.

The silicone used is FDA approved which means you aregetting the very best in body safe material and each toy is waterproof up to ametre so bath time friendly if you are so inclined.

The controls are simple with just two integrated buttons foron/off and function control, which is a little refreshing amongst today’s hightech gadget toys.

Funky, fresh and innovative, PicoBong offers a refreshinglydifferent choice in the luxury market.

Sex & Sensemotion

2011-10-26T08:48:00.000Z

I have one rule in the bedroom & that is no outside source of entertainment other than me. Unfortunately the lack of TV sadly results in balancing the lap top on the bedside table, surfing for free porn and initiating foreplay whilst trying to pick up the wireless signal, despite this I still stick to my guns.
This came as something of a shock to my husband who had fantasies of watching early/late Grand Prix and playing PS3 on the duvet. Whilst my better half has never complained about me taking home my work (especially for trial and test purposes) the imminent arrival of the new Lelo Sensemotion range had him rather more excited than usual.

The trio of technologically advanced sex toys includes Oden (Cock Ring), Tiani (Couples vibrator) and Lyla (remote control vibrating egg). Firstly lets discuss the gadget lovers closest thing to gaming and sex - Sensemotion. All three Lelo sex toys have the Sensemotion control, which relys upon motion itself to alter the vibrator intensity. A sweeping hand motion, flick of the wrist or tilt of the hand will all increase or decrease the sensation felt by the user - smart sex toys indeed. The intuitive aspect of this technology is perfect for couples sex toys, allowing movement to play it's part with both toy and partner, a seamless provision of pleasure that doesn't get in the way of proceedings. Akin to the dual shock remote technology of the PS3, the sensemotion also allows the controller to experience the effect felt by the wearer by mirroring the toys vibration in the control pad. Brings a whole new meaning to fun and games in the bedroom and has already set my partner on a quest to find the perfect combination of moves for the ultimate orgasm!
From my point of view Oden, Tiani and Lyla still have bags of designer sex toy desirability. The look and feel of the vibrators is divine, with a silky smooth silicone coat that only requires the smallest amount of lubricant to glide like cashmere over skin. The concept behind all three Lelo toys caters to couples although the Lyla and Oden's vibrator shaft is just as much fun alone as with company.
Again the Swede's manage to give us just what we want and this time bring a little gaming into the bedroom!

One (or two) for The Ladies

2011-10-13T14:01:00.000Z

As there are so many wonderful intimate products & sex toys for women on the market nowadays & us ladies have less time to peruse the aforementioned necessities, we at The Boudoir have created a wonderful section of women only treats in handy sized sections.
If you are looking for sex toys for self pleasure we have begun pulling together the best clitoral vibrators in The Boudoir. Based on sex toy tester feedback we have begun putting together the ultimate collection of pleasure objects for masturbation whether looking for a designer toy treat or a handbag quickie.
For a little discreet vibration during sex we have a section devoted to the toys that can lend a hand with orgasm during intimate moments with your partner. Small, quiet sex toys that can be slipped between the sheets without announcing their arrival during your performance.
Female friendly lubricants that work with the natural balance of your body and sexual enhancers that can help with sensitivity or dryness during different times of the month or during the menopause.
Female focused pleasure is our business and we would love to add any products you would be happy to recommend just contact us directly at info@theboudoir.net - Lets spread the word!

Recipe for Cunning Cunnilingus

2011-06-28T15:34:00.000Z

We have new sex toys and enhancers arriving each day at the moment and as the flow of adult delicacies passes under our noses we cannot help but think of new ways of using them. We have been adding sumptuous products from both Shunga & Bswish Sex Toys and thought of the perfect pairing for a cunnilingus recipe that will be a worthy addition to your oral repertoire.

Ingredients: 1 Bswish Bnaughty Deluxe Bullet Vibrator
1 Shunga Aroma Flavoured Lubricant (Choose according to taste)
Method: Take the Bnaughty deluxe and simply place between your lovers legs ready for action. Ask your lady to lay on her back, legs apart and relax. Take a small amount of the Shunga Aroma and gently massage it into the clitoris (inhaling the mouth watering scent as you go).
Gently circle your tongue around the labia, adopting your usual method of cunnilingus whilst savouring the delicious flavoured lubricant. At intervals intersperse your tongue work with the Bnaughty bullet tracing the same lines with the toy before alternating with the clitoral massage that builds to orgasm. The feeling of soft warm tongue and penetrating vibrations from the bullet feels amazing and cuts down tongue work whilst raising the level of overall stimulation.

Whats so great about the ingredients? Shunga Aroma is one of the only flavoured lubricants that doesn't leave an after taste so using the smooth lube is pleasurable from start to finish. The Bswish Bnaughty Deluxe is both small enough for fabulous clitoral massage and powerful enough to please whether using it for masturbation, foreplay or during love making to bring on that climax.

I Love to Ride

2011-05-10T14:38:00.000Z

There is something immensely satisfying about movement in masturbation. Is it anatomical or simply more satisfying as an involved experience? Lying on your back (or front) and working a sex toy against your body does the trick but any movement involving pelvic thrusts just does the trick. We first encountered a purpose built rocking sex toy with the Rock ChickVibrator many moons ago, which felt like learning to ride a bike but was rewarding once an individual technique was mastered. Although the Rock Chick remains a firm favourite of ours, times change and with it the arrival of the dual stimulating rocking ride of the iRide hands free sex toy for those that like masturbation that works up a sweat.
iRide has the same dual stimulation concept but has worked this design into a saddle to ride. There is a 4" 'phallic' insertion on the top of the saddle with clitoral nub to the front for massage of the labia. Thinking back to pony riding days the basic riding techniques can be applied to this vibrating saddle. Rising trot works the internal shaft with a base sturdy enough to squeeze with the thighs, a brisk canter works the vibration into thighs, clitoris and vagina whilst a gentle walk tilts the pelvis along the saddle body taking advantage of the highest level of vibration.
Tilting the pelvis takes full advantage of the sensitivity of the clitoris and massaging the entire length against the ridge of iRide leaves no stimulating nerve ending untouched.
The hands free part of this toy also allows you to concentrate on other areas of your body or your partners. The next time you promise some oral pleasure to your partner hop on the iRide and it will make the experience so much more interesting!

iRide

Win A Boudoir Easter Box

2011-04-20T11:39:00.000Z

Spring is in the air (actually feels like summer today!) and we are looking forward to the Easter bank holiday weekend. In the spirit of Easter celebrations we have put together a Boudoir Easter Box full of indulgent goodies of the grown up girl variety.

Our Easter Box Contains: 1 x Cupids Mini Rabbit 1 x Loving Joy Wonder Egg 1 x Lovers Paintbox 1 x Intimate Organics Body Souffle in cocoa Bean & Goji Berry

TO WIN simply RT from our Twitter Page Until 5pm 21st April Good Luck!

Fun Factory Fever

2011-03-11T15:01:00.001Z

Spring is in the air and we have been selecting our favourites from the new and exciting re-vamped range of Fun Factory sex toys in time for the Vernal Season. Its great to see that Fun Factory have extended their range to include some recognisable (and preferable) toys, such as Tango a dual stimulating vibe which appeals far more than Paul & Paulina did (sorry we took it off the shelves it looks like a over sized maggot). The improvements are not just in aesthetics but also in power and efficiency, poor old Mary Mermaid (now discontinued) didn't have a booster button in the base to propel us to dizzying heights of ecstasy faster than a formula 1 race car. The choice of function has expanded whilst noise level and power and never been so impressive.
Another exciting area of development has been Fun Factory's dedication to male pleasure most notably in the production of both Duke and the Cobre Libre. Feedback on the Cobre has been quite incredible and has led to a never before penis envy in the office whilst Duke takes the concept of the prostate massager and injected a German engineering that makes it an indispensable accessory for the discerning male.
Fun Factory are still crafting battery charged sex toys but have also developed a Click 'N' Charge technology which offers the choice of some brilliant re-chargeable vibrators. On the face of it the concept seems a little complicated but its really easy to use and eliminates the need to dispose of a stock pile of batteries.
Simply put, when you first buy a Click N Charge Vibrator you need to purchase one of these:

The plug part of the charger is pushed into the socket as per normal whilst the magnetic disc is placed against the corresponding part of the toy. Leave to charge and then enjoy about 90 minutes of buzz before repeating the process. You only need one charger for all the Click 'N' Charge range so after spending the £4.99 there is no extra cost (unlike the numerous packs of Duracell on conventional toys).

We haven't yet finished our additions and look forward to adding the fabulous G4 vibes and Yooo before the Summer arrives.

The Question Of Sex Education

2011-02-24T17:18:00.000Z

I have worked at The Boudoir for 4 years and have listened to many women talk about how they struggle to enjoy orgasm. At the same time over the past couple of years my 14 year old daughter has been attending sex education at school (sorry PHSE). Why are women so good at faking orgasm? Because sex education from the age of 12 teaches us all the methods of procreation without explaining about how to enjoy sex as recreation. Only with sexual experience do many women realise that although the text book motions are gone through an orgasm can be a long time coming if it ever graces us with its arrival at all. Biology may form an important part of sex education, but considering the number of times you actually try for a baby (in some cases never) and how often you enjoy sex as a pleasurable pursuit wouldn’t it be prudent to really explain to girls how to enjoy their body. Confidence in your body engenders a self-knowledge and self-respect that can only be positive to females, especially when it comes to the opposite sex. Never once is a girl shown in an educational environment which part of her body needs attention for orgasm and instead the quality of information received is dependant on how lucky you are in the parental communication or sensible friend stakes.

What a con! Mrs Lockyear never mentioned the clitoris in year 2 when she was showing us how to put a condom on a banana.

My best friend showed me her clitoris under a drama box when she was 13 and told me she used a plethora of apparatus to stimulate it. She wanted me to ask my mum if it was ok, which I did and luckily she told us it was healthy to enjoy your own body but be careful with the apparatus – good old mum!

There seems to be two types of sex education, the first anatomical/biological version that ensures the proliferation of the planet (as we are so desperately in need of more people) and the second experiential lessons you learn (good ones if you are lucky) about how to enjoy your body alone or with a partner.

It may not be high on the agenda at the moment but wouldn’t we benefit from a re-think on the sex education front?

My Valentine

2011-02-14T14:54:00.000Z

I was rushing into work this morning and bumped into an acquaintance of mine who insisted in stopping for a chat. Conversation rolled around to Valentines day and she said that after 28 years of marriage her husband bought her two dozen red roses. He had quite blatantly got it wrong! This lady has no idea I work with sex toys which was even more amusing considering she told me that for weeks she had been dropping hints that she desired a vibrator. Adamant that she had even given him direction on the type of vibrator she wanted, the blooms when they arrived, were in fact something of a disappointment.
Often the pressure of Valentine can make a potentially positive event fall flat on its face. The build up, pressure to perform, choosing the right gift, communicating the correct sentiment or longing to make the day or night the best the other person has experienced can lead to anxiety rather than the revelry you had envisaged.
This year I asked my husband for nothing, in fact I made it quite clear that I didn't even want a card.
Why?
If in the morning he leaves the house before I'm awake he leaves me tea in a cup with sugar, spoon and loving note. If he pops out for milk or the papers there are times he comes home with hand tied flowers. If I look tired he makes the effort to take over my tasks and cooks dinner more times to mention. These things are given to me 52 weeks of the year with no pressure or burden and mean more than an annual obligation to proffer some chocolates or over priced flowers. When it comes to sex the build up can often leave the event flatter than your attempt at Delia's Valentine Souffle. Over indulgence can leave you lethargic or reaching for the Rennie's rather than the erotic rub. The best sex I have ever had came from an unexpected spark of lust derived from a kiss, look or sweep of the hand across the thigh.
Tonight I am making some special time with my partner outside of the normal routine but in a relaxed way with a few naughty accessories of my choosing. No big gestures or fantastic display of opulence just an intimate evening that nods its head to the interest we have in pleasing each other. Whatever you are doing tonight remember to relax and Enjoy x

A Rose By Any Other Name

2011-01-25T14:00:00.000Z

If you are looking for a sweet Rose for your Juliet why not opt for the long lasting option that generates pleasure for years rather than the week it sits in a vase. You may not choose to sit the Icicles No 12 Rose Glass Dildo on the side board but its pure aesthetic beauty cannot be denied. The delicate folds of petal at the tip have a distinct labial quality with a pinkish hue at the head that exudes a feminine elegance and charm. The texture and ripples of the shaft stimulate on penetration and compliment the smooth feel of hand blown glass. Heat up the glass or freeze for icy sensations whilst the massager will not shatter or break. Cleaning the glass variety of dildo is easy with a wipe over the smooth surface or by popping on the top shelf of the dishwasher.

Valentine's is rolling around and the Icicles Rose Dildo would make a welcome gift for an expectant lover, although perhaps reserve the choice for a seasoned sex toy user rather than a novice who perhaps wouldn't opt for a glass dildo from the off!

Labial Massage Techniques – A guy’s guide

2011-01-18T11:47:00.000Z

We understand the clitoris can be a confusing area. Much of the network of receptive nerves are hidden from view and spread far and wide whilst the labia themselves fold and ruche in a delicate display which can seem too dainty for touch. That said, sensitivity of the clitoris is an individual thing and it always pays to ask whether more or less pressure need be applied. A clitoral vibrator is invaluable during both sex and foreplay but mastering a few manual techniques will add variety to your sexual repertoire and alter the type of orgasm she experiences. Before we begin with a couple of tried and tested massage techniques remember one golden rule, with clitoral massage ‘Less is more’ and in most cases diving for the central spot with excess purpose will probably be more uncomfortable than pleasurable!

The wishbone

You don’t have to touch the clitoris directly to benefit from its immense pleasure giving properties. Think of the shape of a wishbone and make the ‘V’ with your index and middle fingers. Slip those fingers either side of the labia. Once in position tug the fingers up and down which in turn pulls the clitoral nub under the tip of the hood (at the top of these two long lips). This is particularly good for women with a sensitive clitoral area that perhaps don’t like the central spot touched directly and also great for foreplay as prompts arousal, getting the genital area engorged and moist.

Open Palm

Another technique that uses the entire clitoral area for massage incorporates the palm of the hand. Rest the base of the palm at the top of the pubic bone where the pubic hair stops. Allow the palm to fall over the clitoral area with the fingertips touching the entrance to the vagina. Gently circle the hand over the entire area making sure that skin-to-skin contact is maintained. Ask her if she prefers the up and down or side to side motion to find out which gives her the most pleasure.

Rocking the boat

Although the clitoral tip is at the top central point of the extending labia it’s not always pleasurable to have the area massaged directly. The best way to approach clitoral massage is to use the inner fold of skin to massage over the central area and therefore allowing the sensitive nerve endings to be stimulated without making the sensation unbearable. Move the fold of skin over to the other side and back in a rocking motion massages the sensitive centre in the process and will easily build to orgasm or raise arousal for what’s to come

NB: If you are using a vibrator in this fashion you do not need to push the toy all the way to the other side and once building to the final climax holding the vibrator still and to the centre is enough to allow her to enjoy the full sensation when it arrives

A Moment of Nostalgia

2011-01-05T11:15:00.000Z

I began plans for The Boudoir in 2004 much to the surprise of many who knew me and opened the on-line shop in 2005. Challenging, rewarding, frustrating and amusing but I have yet to encounter a project that inspires such motivation and enjoyment. So much has changed since first tentatively mouthing the words 'clitoris' and 'Dildo' to the 50+ silver haired gent who headed our initial website (I recall the toe curling embarrassment) and the person today who can comfortably chat to anyone willing to hear about the day to day intricacies of running a sex toy business. As expected there have been highs and lows aplenty and if in the words of Baz Luhrman 'Advice is a form of nostalgia' my suggestion would be to only embark on such a project if persistence and patience are qualities you possess. Allowing ourselves an element of retrospection we want to take forward in 2011 all those parts of our work that we have enjoyed the most and our customers have found most useful. Our advice will expand to a greater range of specialist topics and video instruction (yes we have been brushing up on our presenting skills) with more factual reviews of popular products. Don't expect lots of corporate style footage, we have been filming female focus groups that involve brilliant yet intimate reviews I'm sure you will love. Our team has grown with like minded ladies and I am continually impressed by the creativity of the intelligent and tenacious women I am lucky enough to work with. On a personal note and ever longing for a challenge I am enrolling on a post graduate Psychosexual Therapy qualification, but hey sleeps for wimps!

We have sourced many new brands for the year and are incorporating body and beauty lines that complement our sex toys and accessories perfectly. Our Boudoir lingerie is expanding and notably we are incorporating much of the Baci Range during the first two months of the year, check out the lines they are gorgeous!

I love Erotic literature and have personally tasked myself with hunting out the best in stimulating fiction so watch out for a much expanded selection and due to popular demand a greater choice of instructional DVDs.

Keep an eye on Funfactory as we are incorporating their full and revised range including the click and charge sex toys. We are increasing products in all genres but will continue to pick a range which offers a choice for those looking for quality with value and those wanting unadulterated designer luxury.

There are so many plans in the pipeline, some more ambitious than others but the constant for us is the enjoyment we derive from knowing the small and significant improvements we help many to make to their sex lives. We wish you all health and happiness for 2011 and look forward to an exciting year to come.

Angelina

The Boudoir

Happy Christmas

2010-12-24T14:05:00.000Z

HAVE A FABULOUS CHRISTMAS FROM US ALL AT THE BOUDOIR

WISHING YOU HEALTH & HAPPINESS FOR 2011 X

Lelo Ignites The Senses

2010-11-12T11:01:00.000Z

Lelo's luxurious Flickering Touch Massage Line and Personal Lubricant has arrived at The Boudoir. In true lelo style the sex enhancing range merges function with form in eye catching designs and intoxicating formula's you can feel confident about. Much like their sex toys range the manufacturer has maintained their dedication to quality with some degree of ostentation, as in the addition of 24k gold flakes in the Massage oil!

Lelo's Moisturising Lubricant is water-based, Glycerin and Paraben free for those interested in the content of their lube and hypoallergenic so the perfect companion to your skin and silicone sex toys. Whether using with a vibrator or your partner the Lubricant lasts the duration, therefore only a little is required as it goes a long way.The packaging is exquisite and feels more like a cosmetics line than an intimate product.

Lelo Massage Oil as mentioned contains gold flakes for radiance with a formula combining Apricot kernel, Grape Seed and Jojoba Oils. The texture is non greasy and indeed shimmers after application. It would be ideal for use after a shower and before going out for an eye catching sheen and as it moisturises, keeps the skin nourished especially important in the Winter months. Sitting in its bottle it could be mistaken for a designer perfume and would make a gorgeous gift. The scents of the oils really set this product apart for us, available in Balsam Fir and Bergamot, Spicy Clove and Amber or Fresh Lily and Musk. After use your skin radiates a subtle scent which doesn't over power yet cries out for you to get close and inhale the intoxicating aroma.

Lelo's Massage Candle is all natural soy wax and for those that haven't tried a massage candle before is melted before being poured onto the skin. The effect is a warming one leaving the air and your skin soft and scented. Flickering touch Massage Candle is available in Vanilla and Creme de Cacao, Pomegranate and Spicy Black Pepper and our favourite Snow Pear and Cedarwood, a real Nordic inspired aroma. Again the quality scents linger rather than overpower the skin and all of the products we tried left a soft moisturised feeling without a greasy residue.

Lelo have continued with their keen eye for design and quality throughout these accessories to pleasure and if you love all that is enduring stylish, durable and at times quite beautiful about Lelo's products you will love these.

PS: Note to all male Readers: The lady in your life will really like these products if stuck for Pressie ideas

Snow Pear & Cedarwood Massage candle

The Usual Suspects or Something Different

2010-11-09T14:51:00.000Z

If you like your sex toys in White, White or just pure White then you are going to Love Jimmyjane's Usual Suspects range of iconic sex toys. The premise is this; Jimmyjane has chosen its pick of classic if not 'iconic' sex toys and given them a designer makeover complete with signature shade of emblematic white. The designer has in effect chosen its members for an exclusive club which captures the main players of the adult market, each sex toy representing a genre that has spawned so many incarnations of the product itself. Despite the hundreds of versions of each toy in its line up, Jimmyjane has stripped down to the essence of each and puts forward an ultimate, luxury version as its icon. Yes we recognise the roll call; the Rabbit Vibrator, Classic Vibe, Bullet, Cock Ring, Pocket Rocket and Vibrating Duckie stand side by side in a line up that tops every girls wish list. Admittedly the white does take some getting used to particularly after the concoction of sugary hues seen on the likes of the rabbit vibrator or Duckie but once you turn the toys on and hold them in your hand the appearance almost takes a back seat. The line up hardly jumps out at you from the shelf but holds an understated appeal that really calls for closer inspection.

Stripped bare, Jimmyjane's range focuses on the form and function of each sex toy with both material and design representing the crème de la crème in the market. It reminds us of the M&S ad, 'this is no ordinary cock ring'.... Of course if an ordinary cock ring does the job for you then spending the extra for something, well extra, will seem superfluous to requirements. If on the other hand you are looking for something trusted in design yet special in its production take a look at Jimmyjane's range (and given the concept even the white can be forgiven!)

Remote Control Fancy Pants

2010-11-01T18:33:00.000Z

Thus far on our travels to find good and useful sex toys for women and couples we have yet to stock a pair of remote control pants. Why have we resisted the urge to sell knickers of the quivering variety? All we have seen are either of a nylon leopard print fancy dress kind or a shiny incontinence pants style of hip huggers in which you would struggle to raise a glimmer of arousal. We have had our eye on the Berman Centre Astrea Remote Control Thong ever since we saw Katherine Heigl squirming in her panties in The Ugly Truth (to be honest we have been a little in love with her since Greys Anatomy). The panties are a flattering V fit with thong and don't scratch or squeak when you walk. The soft fabric hides a pocket for the vibrator and the underwear inspires a little sexual confidence either under an evening outfit or for show in the bedroom.
I suppose the old adage 'you get what you pay for' applies to Astrea and for a flattering pair of pulsating panties the cost does push above £70 but if you want to enjoy a couples toy that feels as good as it looks we would recommend giving The Berman Centre pair a go!
In the meantime here's the lovely Katherine enjoying the pants...

Adrien Lastic Arrives

2010-10-25T12:11:00.001Z

We know it sounds like an extra flexible European Porn Star but Adrien Lastic is actually a new sex toy brand which we have become very excited about indeed. For us the premise of this European range of sex toys is quality at affordable prices which in a time of cutbacks, consolidation and generally watching the pennies allows a quality conscious purchase inside a budget most people can afford. Many of us are looking for cheaper options hopefully without compromising the standards that we enjoy too much and Adrien Lastic balance the current conundrum of price/quality which results in some fabulous and affordable adult toys.
So far we have the Thrusting Rabbit, Love balls, Remote Control eggs of differing sizes, Anal Beads,Vibrating Cock Rings and Trifun a G-Spot Dildo akin to Funfactory's Curve (with a little extra buzz on the side).
Most of the product is made from Silicone and all materials are hypoallergenic and body safe. The silicone is soft, smooth and seam free with a solidity to the core which holds the beads, dildos and vibrating eggs firmly during penetration and massage.
Packaging is fresh and modern and doesn't cut corners in order to bring the right price to the store.
The noise level is low on vibrating toys and Adrien Lastic develop their own technologies which team reliability with performance, this is no half hearted attempt at a sex toy range!
We hope to add to their ever growing selection of female and couple friendly sex toys and pay homage to a company which is offering something useful to the adult market instead of renegading safe and reliable toys to an unachievable wish list.

Adrien Lastic G Spot Dildo's

Lelo Accessories are all here

2010-10-11T14:52:00.000Z

We have coveted, lusted after and loved Lelo Sex Toys for a while and now have the full compliment of Lelo pleasure accessories at The Boudoir. Decadent, luxurious and extremely sensual in soft silks, suede and jacquard. Suited to long lavish weekends in Boutique Hotels or as a celebratory gift for the discerning lady or wants nothing but the best, Lelo's boudoir accessories provide a welcome extravagance to our soft bondage pieces.
Lelo Boa is a restraining tie with both silk and pearls using a weighted system to secure your lover. Less serious restraint and more comfortable keeping in place.
Lelo Intima is a blindfold with smooth silk one side and Lelo's signature Jacquard on the reverse. A fancy blindfold with elasticated panel for a one size fit
Lelo Etherea Cuffs have soft silk and sensual suede on either side for smooth sensory pleasure against the skin
Lelo Sensua is a sheepskin tasseled whip with chrome handle which feels pure luxury in your hand
Lelo Tantra Feather Teasing is a tickling stick with down feathers that feel divine traced along the sensitive areas of skin
Lelo Sutra Combines silk, suede and metal in versatile bondage cuffs perfect for a multitude of restraining play scenarios and sexual fantasy

Did we mention we love the photography .......

Lelo Etherea

Lelo Sensua

Lelo Sutra

Lelo Intima

Lelo Boa

Lelo Tantra

Sealed With a Kiss

2010-10-07T13:48:00.001Z

Were kisses all the joys in bed,
One woman would another wed.
~William Shakespeare, Sonnets to Sundry Notes of Music, IV

When it comes to brilliant foreplay and arousal, kissing is king. Kissing is in fact the height of intimacy and avoiding the sensual kiss usually indicates a lack of affinity and closeness in a relationship. Kissing takes effort but reap the rewards of an enhanced arousal and increased sense of closeness, which makes for fantastic sex.

Begin at the beginning

A spine tingling start to foreplay, begin by lightly brushing your lovers lips without opening your mouth. Gently trace the outline of your lover’s lips kissing the upper and lower sections of the mouth with the lightest touch you can manage.

Knights Kisses

Said to be used by Medieval Knights this is a series of gentle kisses that begin just under the ear at one side of the neck and trace a line down across the breastbone and up to the other ear. The necklace shape kisses were suited to the ladies low cut neckline of medieval dresses.

The Frenchie

Yes the classic French kiss with probing swirling tongue. Don’t push the tongue in too far and take it easy on the movement you don’t want to recreate the motion of a washing machine, provoke the gag reflex of your lover or deposit large amounts of saliva in their mouth.

The Latin Lover

During steamy long summers of sex Latin Lovers were said to flick beads of glistening sweat from their lovers body. Re-enact the motion by flicking the tongue quickly over sensitive spots such as the nipples and of course clitoris. Try this technique at the base of the back or inner thigh as a prelude to oral sex as sensitivity will soar.

Naughty Puppy

Think lapping motion with this kiss allowing the mouth to completely relax and lapping the tongue upwards before allowing to fall. Best to use this kiss on larger areas (might slobber the face a bit) and apply to inner thigh, lower tummy, breasts etc. The Naughty Puppy is also very good as oral technique flicking the clitoral nub at the fullest stretch before allowing to relax against the inner labia on the way down.

Snake Kiss

Imagine the writhing snake and enact with your tongue its that simple! Swirl, prod and poke in a firm way over all areas of the body in a type of massage with the tongue and lips. This feels divine on the nipple area and also along the shaft of the penis. The only downside to this one is the lack of moisture and suddenly finding you gasping for water part way through!

Butterfly Kiss

Sweet and delicate, gently flutter your eyelashes over your lovers skin

Sweet Streak Lingerie

2010-09-27T16:01:00.002Z

We look at a lot of lingerie and decide against offering lots of it. Sourcing the right type of sexy outfit is difficult in that 'fabulous quality', 'good price' and 'right impression' all need their boxes ticked. Much of the high street sex store lingerie looks, well lets say inelegant and Boudoir Lingerie needs to inspire a little confidence not a nasty chafe of nylon. At the other end of the spectrum boutique lingerie looks and feels Dita Von Teese but without her earning potential teeters precariously on the heels of 'haven't got a hope in hell'. Beautiful lingerie should be available in all sizes and make the best of every figure. We try very hard to find Boudoir outfits that make you feel stunning, feel comfortable and won't break the bank in the process and Sweet streaks range of basques and corsets do just that. Provocative styling, risque with a hint of old school glamour with corsets produced in tactile jacquard and embroidered satin. The boning shapes the waist into a perfect hour glass and many of the corsets are just too beautiful to be hidden away underneath your clothes. The detailing accentuates the breasts and hips and most importantly feels a million dollars on which is what a seductive outfit should be all about!

Form 2 Much?

2010-09-15T13:13:00.000Z

I read two prominent reviews of the JimmyJane Form 2 this morning both by men and both criticising the fact that the designer vibrator was not suitable for penetration. Do I need to say more! You can bet your phony orgasm on the fact that they both need a master class in female pleasure if we could be bothered. It seemed that both reviews were based on the marketing material supplied by JimmyJane and one assumes they thought 'female sex toy' and could only lament the fact they you couldn't stick it in which of course is what most women want isn't it!
On a more sensible note here's our view. The conceptual side of Form 2 is a great one in that so many women buy a rabbit vibrator and only use it for its ears. Lets face it most women want clitoral stimulation to get off and we get regular enquiries from women who use the renowned bunny without inserting the shaft and want something easier to use. Form 2 looks to be that sex toy with 'ear' like prongs that will easily slip inside the labia for masturbation or used during sex due to its small size and petite package. The whole point of Form 2 is clitoral vibration with no sacrifice of function over form. The unique and effective point of Form 2 is an individual motor in each ear which takes clitoral stimulation to a whole new level. The powerful stimulation is not lost whichever angle is adopted and when used together have nerve jumping power. In fact Form 2 might prove a little too strong for some. Many women tend to stick to single speed vibrations on their sex toys as I figure its more effective when trying to build to orgasm. From our experience Form 2 differs in that the variation offers the most effective multi function we have tried which we know will please many of our customers out there.
The biggest down side to this luxury vibrator is the cost but quality costs money and if you are looking for an investment buy Form 2 could be for you.

Lelo Boa Pleasure Ties

2010-08-24T06:44:00.000Z

Lelo Boa Pleasure Ties have arrived at The Boudoir this morning to a shrieking gaggle of girls all eager to get their sticky mitts on the designers latest boudoir accessory as Lelo's takes the concept of conventional restraints and shoots it into the stratosphere. We are not talking your standard set of bondage cuffs here but an adult accessory which puts restraining play firmly on a gold trimmed velvet cushion and presents it your lover with a fanfare and courtly bow. The silk ties stretch just over a metre long with a jacquard pattern suited to sumptuous soft furnishings or stately home swags. The material is far to fine for scrunching and Lelo have devised a means to restrain your lover whilst keeping their tactile ties smooth and crease free. Boa has a pouch of fresh water pearls at one end and a metal ring at the other with the principle of threading the weighted pouch through the loop and pulling around your lovers wrists or ankles. A novel idea indeed and once you have slammed a door on the pearly pouch it has enough strength to keep even the most writhing partner in place.
Presented in a Lelo gift box it would suit a special occasion gift and could be left on the dining table without worrying about the raised eyebrow of your waiter. Lelo have produced a soft bondage restraint to enhance the ambiance of any sensual boudoir and if you love the superior feel of designer sex toys you will adore the aesthetic of this pure silk pleasure accessory.

Lelo Boa Pleasure Ties

Ascendancy Descends

2010-08-09T16:08:00.000Z

We have had a resounding 'More Please' when it comes to the Vibe Therapy Collection of Vibrators added to our shelves over the past couple of months. So much so that we have sourced further sex toys from the Designer's collection due to arrive over the coming weeks.

Vibe Therapy Ascendancy

Vibe Therapy Ascendancy has arrived today which is a massager/clitoral vibrator with 3 speed settings. It is extremely tactile as we have experienced with the Rabbit Vibes and vibrators with a medical grade silicone that feels like silk once a little water based lubricant is applied. The 'lay on' style of Ascendancy brings to mind the Fun factory Layaspot vibrator and similar except Vibe Therapy's version is slightly larger and bulbous which is fab for grip. Waterproof and simple to use with powerful vibrations, Ascendancy would be a good choice for self pleasure and couples foreplay and we sure it will be flying from the shelves just as its cousins have.

Win an Ascendancy - We are offering Vibe Therapy's massager as August's designer toy prize on Facebook. If you are keen to get your hands on one simply 'Like' our page and a lucky person gets one delivered to their door at the end of the month.

Erotic Trade Sex Toy Nominations

2010-05-12T17:45:00.001Z

The annual erotic trade awards have a category for Best Adult Product, last years winner was the Screaming O Lingo so lets take a look at the nominations for 2010. Amidst the five potential victors are three rabbits so the ladies vibrator of choice appears to be dominating proceedings!
The Bargain Bunny - Toy Joys rabbit vibrator is anything but bargain basement! The thing we love about this bunny is the textured surface which unlike the bingo is nobbled rather than spiked. Rub a little lubricant on the bumps and they feel fantastic, especially on the vibrating ears.
Jessica Rabbit Ultimate - One of Loving Joys plethora of Rabbit Vibrators launched this year. We have been a fan of every single one but agree that the 36 different combinations of stimulation certainly put the 'ultimate' in this Jessica.
Throbbing hearts - A Rabbit Vibrator with a shaft that contracts and expands giving a 'throbbing' sensation inside the vagina instead of a rotation or thrust. Sex Toy manufacturers are always thinking of new ways for the rabbit to please and throbbing hearts has proved itself a popular choice in the Boudoir thus far.
Vibrating Touche Ice Massager - If predictions of this years Summer heat wave are true the Ice Massager will be the perfect choice for sultry summer evenings. The 'lolly pop' part of the toy will see you making up your own ice pops (try adding a little vodka for a twist) with your frozen fancy then driven by powerful vibrations at the other end. Touche Ice is a contender for originality alone and if you enjoy sexy ice play is the perfect way to spend an evening with your partner.
We-Vibe II - The second generation of We-Vibe is the final of the 5 nominations. The most interesting couples sex toy of the decade featured in publications up and down the country (including ITV's This Morning a couple of weeks ago)
We will let you know the winner after its announced on the night but if we were forced to choose the Ultimate Rabbit would romp home and the Jessica would take the crown.

Which would you choose?

Better Than Chocolate Wins Red Dot Award

2010-05-04T17:15:00.000Z

For those of you who haven't heard of the Red Dot Award its a prestigious product awarded by Design Zentrum in Essen Germany with the winning product displayed in the Red Dot Museum as a part of elite design led product. The competition is fierce and the array of product diverse but this year the coveted award was given to a sex toy, Nomi Tangs Designer Vibrator 'Better Than Chocolate'. A prestigious design award to a clitoral vibrator? Better Than Chocolate deserves to revel in its internationally recognised success with a vibrator that fulfils function, form with aesthetics that please in many ways. Congratulations to Nomi Tang and yes it is official a pleasure object that is better than chocolate.

The Boudoir Sex Toys Beginners Box

2010-04-07T11:26:00.000Z

I suppose one advantage to an on-line sex shop is that asking for help is less daunting then waiting at the counter for face to face assistance. For the beginner to sex toys and the more shy and retiring types the thought of discussing vibrators with a complete stranger is enough to bring on palpitations and sweaty palms. Sending an e-mail over to us requires a much smaller leap outside of your comfort zone and many people contact us weekly asking for advice on which type, brand, size of sex toy to buy.

With this in mind we have collated a box of beauties for the beginner with our boudoir recommended brand of Cupids Club, toys which represent value, quality and body safe materials and lend themselves well to both female and couples looking to embark on a pleasurable journey together.

The Stealth Surprise Vibrator looks pretty classic in its torpedo launcher style but this vibe is extremely quiet (the company literature says silent which is never the case) discretion is often paramount and this vibrator is stealthy. The size is also large enough for fulfilling penetration whilst not scary in proportions to put off the beginner.

The Lipido Lipstick Vibrator is a clitoral vibrator for utmost discretion yet a powerful pocket size toy with easy twist base and 'pop up' lipstick style. Great for masturbation or use during sex.

The Thunderpod Vibrating Egg is powerful with a one speed turbo setting but is a more practical toy for beginners experimentation. Use as a clitoral vibrator, massage or for clitoral stimulation during sex. More versatile than a clitoral vibrator and can be used by both partners.

The Mini Rabbit by Cupids Club is a brilliant way to get to know a rabbit vibrator. The perfect positioning tool the mini rabbit's shaft is static, allowing the beginner to concentrate on placing the shaft and clitoral stimulating ears in the right position during masturbation. The vibration is powerful enough to bring on orgasm and the controls are simple to use.

The collection encompasses rabbit vibrators, vibrators for penetration and clitoral stimulation and a vibrating egg for all round versatility.

Cupids Club sex toys are body safe, very well presented and produced in tactile materials. The Boudoir Sex Toys Beginners Box also saves you £6 on the individual item prices with free discreet delivery in the bargain Enjoy!

Erotic Film Club

2010-03-02T15:46:00.000Z

There's a place for porn and then there's a time for something subtler. A film with mastery over the imagination, intelligent plot and beautiful photography which simmers with a sexual subtext or even overloads the senses with scenes of sex and nudity. Erotic film, although not pornographic can be a very powerful medium in turning you on and turning on your sexual receptors. There is something so very appealing about the mix of an Erotic Films sexual content with the emphasis on pleasure, physical desire, and often human companionship.
This month we have launched our very own Erotic Film Club whereby we plan to share our own naughty nights recommended viewing alongside your own suggestions for a sexy film that sets the mood for you. Remember that every taste needs to be catered for so from erotic dramas or thrillers, sexploitation films, art house sensations or Hollywood productions that get your juices flowing contact us, we will watch your choice and if its good will issue a 20% discount voucher to spend on anything at The Boudoir.
We have begun with Insatiable Diary Of A Sex Addict which was released last year and recommended by Julie in our office and Shortbus recommended by James our friendly technical guy.
Here is the uncut version of Shortbus trailer for your titilation with many of the camera shots taken from a voyeuristic perspective involving non simulated sex scenes.

Contact angelina@theboudoir with your suggestions

Some frequently asked questions...

2010-02-17T11:03:00.010Z

Beginners to sex toys often have questions regarding their imminent choice of toy or bedroom accessory. For some its a big leap into the experience of sex toy use or couples sexual experimentation and there are many looming questions amidst the sunshine of self pleasure much like storm clouds on the horizon.

Here are 3 of the most common concerns........

Will I become addicted to a vibrator?

Loss of control is not an uncommon response to a situation that you feel fearful about. This fear is felt most by people that have kept a lid on their libido or sexual desire, whereby the sexual release threatens to open Pandora's box and all its dark harbouring. Addiction to your vibrator is something of a sex-negative urban myth when in truth a healthy enjoyment of your body and the positive effects of sexual release make for a much better balanced state of mind. When you begin using a sex toy and enjoying the fruits of masturbation you will find your own sexual appetite and this will ebb and flow according to your own sexual desire and libido.
The biggest problem is getting stuck in a rut with your new vibe. It can involve a routine of same time of day, same length of time, same position etc. Experimenting with manual technique, various modes of stimulation and different positions can enhance your masturbation experience.

Will a vibrator replace my partner?

In essence the answer to this is not unless you want it too!
Many women in relationships voice their concern or their partners that a vibrator will replace their sex life. It is not unusual for a sex toy to raise insecurity and it is an issue of reassuring your partner that a toy will not inhibit desire for them or diminish the desire for sex. In truth a clitoral vibrator or cock ring can be an essential aid to female orgasm or male stamina and therefore increases satisfaction on both sides. We suggest that a sex toy be seen as it is, simply an aid to the enjoyment you already experience. If you gain any sort of sexual empowerment from it this can only strengthen a relationship and improve a sex life.

Will I become de-sensitised by the vibrations?
Long sessions of vibrator use can well leave you feeling numb and a day long session which involves massaging the clitoris may leave you sore but a regular session with your favoured vibrator will not lead to a de-sensitisation. At worst 'overdoing' your play time might mean leaving your vibe in the drawer for a day and all will return to normal! This is indeed the point that using a sex aid is your choice and length of use, what you choose to use or choose not to is all within your control.

We suggest to newcomers to get yourself informed. Unfortunately there is a real lack of good information regarding sexuality and self pleasure which often leads to feelings of insecurity and a perpetuation of sex-negative attitudes. An increase in sex resources for people would inevitably demystify and promote a healthier understanding of ourselves and partners.
If you have any questions at all drop me an e-mail at angelina@theboudoir.net and watch this space for our Boudoir guides coming soon......

Increase your skins sensitivity

2010-02-02T16:33:00.003Z

Stimulating your skin cells is a good method of pre-sex preparation which will have your senses tingling and ready for touch. Whilst body brushing is a brilliant way to sensitise the skin its hardly sexy and standing there in the nude with a bristle brush doesn't create the ambiance required for a sensual sex session

I Really Want that Bath!

A better start to proceedings is to run a warm bath and add some aroma therapy with scented oil or bubble bath. When your bath is ready take a cup of ice cubes and place them on the side whilst you get in. The idea is to contrast the warmth of the water with the freezing ice cubes to wake up the skin and get the receptors ready for skin on skin contact. Run each cube until melted on various parts of the body before submerging them back in the water. Trace long lines around your nipples, inner thighs, arms even genitals and you will feel invigorated at the close.

Add to the atmosphere by lighting a few candles and enjoy the journey before delving deeper

Don't Forget The Foreplay

2010-01-26T16:31:00.002Z

Its easy to forget, foreplay demands a little more time than a furious fumble before sex and sleep amongst our time deficient demanding week days. Foreplay occurs long before hitting the sack, think of it as warming the motor, letting the wine breathe before tasting, a before play that improves sexual enjoyment and builds to female climax that takes more time and attention. Foreplay builds sexual excitement and anticipation in your mind, the greatest erogenous zone at our disposal.

Why bother with Foreplay?

When time is poor its a delicious feeling to begin caressing and touching your partner knowing that you have to dash out of the door for the day. Building sexual tension before you depart leaves a lingering sexual urge that you can both resume later in the day. Keep the spark alive by sending a couple of text messages during the day letting them know what you want to do to them.

Foreplay is a good indicator of how your partner wants to have sex. Grabbing a wrist for instant clitoral stimulation or placing directly on your lovers cock suggests a sense of urgency whilst avoiding the genital area and indulging in tender kisses suggests a more languid pace.

Foreplay can be very important to the overall sexual act and your enjoyment of it. It is said that women need 20-30 minutes of stimulation to orgasm (don't count using vibrators in this equation) and foreplay can make the difference between achieving climax or not. Some men need longer to ejaculate or in the case of premature ejaculation foreplay allows a longer period of gratification and build up before penetration.

Foreplay keeps the spark alive, flirting and even full open mouthed dirty kissing are often neglected after a few years of routine and comfort. Kissing, caressing, throwing over that naughty look you used to give all remind you both how much you turn each other on.

Valentines fast approaching so why not devote some serious time to foreplay, the occasion call for it, Enjoy!

Oh Mi Bod Club Vibe:The remix of pleasure

2010-01-14T10:10:00.003Z

If you unwrapped a MP3 this Christmas you will be interested to know that it will stimulate more of your senses than first imagined.

Thanks to Oh Mi Bods latest creation your play list could become your 'O' list with a sudden interest in thrash metal if Shostakovich was your cup of tea.

The Club Vibe comes as a smooth mini bullet vibe with controller pad & black panties. The bullet vibe slips into the panty pocket which leaves you with 3 choices on the vibrators function.

Music Mode: This setting operates the vibe with the music playing on your i phone, i pod or any MP3. The buzz operates with the beat in a fusion of music listening pleasure, dictated by your rhythmic choice. The controller pad has to clip on to your body if mobile but the Club Vibe could be taken on the tube ride in - commuting has never felt so good!

Ambient Mode: The Club Vibe vibrates to the sounds around you. A fab setting for couples play whereby your lovers voice has never sounded so good or a brilliant addition to this years festival's improving the sounds in a cornucopia of sensual delight (we suspect a week off work would be needed more than ever)

Manual Mode: If you enjoy Sex toys the manual way choose the manual mode and there are 7 vibration patterns to choose from via the control pad.

Oh MI Bod Club Vibe is a must for any music/gadget lover

(My sister blagged one for a Lost Prophets concert and reported that Ian Watkins never looked so good!)

Kegel Exercises

2009-12-16T13:14:00.004Z

Kegel exercises were devised by Arnold Kegel for the purpose of regaining pelvic muscle function in post natal women. As well as improving sexual enjoyment after childbirth Kegel exercise can improve overall enjoyment of sex. Fancy reaching orgasm quicker than before and enjoying a better climax or have you ever tried stimulating your partners penis during penetration just with your vaginal muscles?, Kegel exercises can enable that level of muscle manipulation and before you know it shooting ping pong balls across the room will be within your grasp!

The PC Muscle runs between the pubic and tail bone in both sexes and are the muscles you would commonly use to hold on to your wee if your bladder is full and you are trying to find a loo. Practising at holding your urine stream whilst on the toilet is a good way to start. Gradually build up the number of squeezes that you do daily and don't worry about finding a special time to do it as nobody knows what you are doing. Try 3 sets of 10 squeezes building to 3 sets of 20 and you will start to feel the results within a couple of weeks. Don't go for the maximum squeeze you can manage keep it relaxed and hold each squeeze for about 3 seconds.

Men will also benefit from Kegel exercise and it will improve the chances of multiple orgasm which is less common in males. Once you have exercised for a month or so you may even be able to lift a hand towel with your semi-erect penis!

Kegel toys are less sex toys and more exercise aids, think of them as dumb bells for the vaginal muscles. It is often easier to clench your muscles around something as the resistance can be felt and your partners penis is the perfect tool or a kegel exerciser or love ball. The Smartballs from Funfactory sex toys offers two weighted balls for stimulating movement or the Teneo which is a single ball for squeezing.

Sex Toys For Christmas

2009-12-01T12:30:00.004Z

We recently asked a question of our Twitter Followers 'Would you buy a sex toy as a Christmas Gift for somebody other than your partner' and the response we got was amazing. It seems that so many of us are venturing to the adult store for sex toys as Christmas presents for a gift that keeps on giving. It seems that the main reason for gifting sex toys is the knowledge that your present will be used rather than gather dust on top of the wardrobe and what better choice for combining the practical and pleasurable.

The vibrator for a good friend seemed a favourite choice as well as secret Santa which usually holds its fair share of saucy treats. What better than to give a sexy gift to a friend, more imaginative than perfume or socks and with designer sex toys to top every female wish list also a present to impress.

Our Best Friends Top 5 Sex Toys

Fun Factory Delight - The award winning delight is the gift for a sex toy connoisseur, a lady who likes the finer things in life and has mastered the art of self pleasure. This friend has everything at the flick of her finger and Fun Factory's delight will be a welcome addition to her designer sex toy collection. Delight is phthalate free, re-chargeable, packaged for a princess, powerful and quiet.

Lelo Mia - For the career girl who works hard and plays hard. Mia has a handy USB connection for swift charging on the laptop at the end of the day. A gift box to die for and quiet, powerful vibrations to get your girl to orgasm before the next event calls.

Nomi Tang Better Than Chocolate - If she enjoys the decadent and nothing better than a cosy night in with sensory treats abound then the Better Than Chocolate vibrator will satisfy all her cravings. Strong clitoral vibrations that can be tailored to suit her particular need this designer vibe will see her through the winter months and beyond. Oh and the wrapper is sumptuous with some of the most impressive packaging we have seen!

Vibe Therapy Vibrators - For the busy mum who has earned a well deserved break but needs to keep the noise down. Vibe therapy produce the quietest vibrators on the market with seam free silicone and powerful penetrating vibrations to soothe away the days hassles. The Vibe Therapy Rabbit Vibrators are a dual stimulation toy to rival all others and the presentation will make her feel as special as she is.

RO 80mm Bullet Vibrator - Our favourite in The Boudoir and a welcome gift for any girl. The RO 80mm Bullet is a true all rounder with skin friendly material, quiet vibrations and a clitoral massage that many sex toys can't rival. If you are stuck for ideas resort to the 80mm bullet it never fails!

New In The Kokeshi Massager

2009-11-24T09:50:00.005Z

Kokeshi Dolls were originally hand crafted by Kijiya craftsmen in the Miyagi Prefecture of Japan.

It is understood that the Kokeshi Doll was given as a gift to visitors who came to bathe in the hot springs during the Edo period.

Big Tease Toys have taken the concept of the Kokeshi Doll and created the Kokeshi massager an intimate massager with three speeds that can be taken into your own hot tub. The massager comes in either male or female design and is super quiet and powerful

The design has real Kawaii appeal and is definately the most discreet sex toy we have seen. The surface of the Kekeshi massager is smooth and soft to the touch and when warmed in the palm of your hand delivers delicious vibrations to the clitoris and nipples.

Whether you are a beginner to sex toys and want a non-threatening vibrator to begin your pleasure quest or need a vibe that can be stood on the dressing table with ease then the Kokeshi Massager would be a great stocking filler this Christmas.

Clit Stim Squeeze

2009-10-27T10:03:00.003Z

Most women find that clitoral stimulation is the most effective way of achieving orgasm. If you want some variation in your masturbation routine take a look at our clitoral massage techniques and take some time to find your favourite route to an earth-shaking orgasm.

A favourite of ours is the Clit Stim Squeeze which as a masturbation technique involves a greater degree of movement to reach orgasm. Take a bullet vibe or slightly longer clitoral vibrator such as the discretion vibrator. Place the vibe between your legs against the outer length of the inner lips (basically the area you would focus on during usual clitoral massage). Close your legs and lie on your side for maximum movement. Squeeze against the vibrator whilst rocking your pelvis back and forth, squeezing your pelvic muscles as you would when building on orgasm. The rubbing against the vibrator will lead to climax and leave your hands free for nipple play too!

This squeezing technique can also be used directly after orgasm for a double whammy that usually leads to another climax in succession. The trick is to do it straight away whilst the sensitive pulsation remains in your clitoris.

You can also adopt this technique during the spoons position with your partner whereby penetration and clitoral massage can be enjoyed simultaneously.

Pumping the PC Muscles

2009-10-15T15:17:00.003Z

Eat 5 fruit and veg a day, exercise 3 times a week, Drink 6 glasses of water a day, the last thing we need is another piece of advice and another weekly chore in a lifestyle regime. Why bother exercising the Pelvic Floor muscles at all, they can't be seen and who the hell is going to benefit from all that work? Well if there is one thing that will benefit your sex life and continue a satisfying level of sensation during penetration and orgasm into your later years its the kegel exercise.

The PC Muscles form a figure of eight shape with one loop around the vagina and the other around the anus. These muscles tend to weaken with age (as all muscles do) and after childbirth when a considerable amount of pressure has been experienced on your pelvic area.

Every woman would benefit from kegel exercise and you don't need to don a lycra ensemble with designer trainers to work out, you can do them anywhere without anybody noticing. Use Funfactory Smartballs or Lelo Luna Beads at home for pleasurable kegel exercise or incorporate your pelvic squeeze into your sexual experience by making the point to tighten your muscles around your partners penis, your dildo or vibrator.

Here are some quick and easy 'anytime' pelvic floor exercisers, do them on the tube, bus or whilst driving to work they will pay dividends:

Locate your PC Muscles by tightening your muscles as you would if you were holding on to a wee or wind. Try to tighten the length of your under carriage from anus to tip of the clitoris.

Do a series of quick squeezes by clenching hard and releasing to the count of 3

Follow this pattern of pelvic squeeze for a repeat of 10, focusing on feeling the anal sphincter really tighten.

Slow down the pattern for a series of 5 long inhale/exhale clenches in time with a long breath, control the squeeze in both directions.

Remember to actually push the muscles out when releasing the squeeze as if bearing down.

Repeat this series of exercises every day on the way into and home from work and your orgasms will be stronger and penetration feel more pleasurable.

My conversation with Mr R

2009-10-06T08:27:00.004Z

I took a call from a gentleman the other day and we had a lengthy discussion about his sex life. The couple had been married for many years and Mrs R, his wife, had never had an orgasm during sex. Mr R was very keen to spice up the marriage and pleasure his wife in a way he felt he hadn't before. The ensuing effort had led to his purchase of sexy outfits (although she insisted in turning off the lights to emerge from the ensuite), a rabbit vibrator he had brought from us 4 months prior and a lubricant to use during sex. Mrs R hadn't enjoyed the rabbit vibrator although Mr R had loved using it on her, she felt the rotating shaft was unnatural and hadn't enjoyed the experience. Our conversation lasted for 1/2 an hour and at the end I really felt for Mr R, he loved and wanted his wife but felt he always seemed to miss the mark when it came to her sexual satisfaction.

He knew that she used sex toys alone as he found various women's toys in her drawer so why hadn't they succeeded in enjoying them together? It really only boils down to one thing; communication.
It seemed Mrs R had become accustomed to not having an orgasm with her husband and enjoyed a collection of vibrators when he left the house. It had become a habitual pattern of behaviour whereby they enjoyed the intimacy of sex but Mrs R only expected to experience the joy of orgasm during self pleasure. A sexy outfit is always top of the 'improve your sex life list' but in reality dressing up the outside isn't going to improve a sex life which needs working on from the inside. Opening up communication, letting go, trusting your partner, experimenting and demonstrating what it is that you find pleasurable are the list toppers.

'Spice up your sex life' its a women's mag cliche, but number one top of the list is not to light a few candles and rub in some massage oil but to TALK. I understand that this can be difficult, some people just aren't comfortable talking about their sexual preferences but little steps eventually take you a long way and sometimes grabbing a rabbit and donning suspenders just isn't going to break down a sexual routine built up over many years.

What did I suggest to Mr R? Well for practical advice, instead of a rabbit vibrator (he brought the thruster anyway!) I suggested a clitoral vibrator for his wife and gave him a few positions to adopt so that she could integrate her usual clitoral massage when they made love. We chose a cock ring to keep him harder to the longer sessions and a vibrating ring to use in the missionary position. I suggested he leave the sexy outfits until they were both comfortable with a new approach and that he ask her about the ways in which she pleasures herself with some direction on his technique.

A great sex life isn't just about the earth shattering orgasms but the intimacy and trust it can create which very quickly benefit all areas of your life. Enjoy!

Oh and good luck to Mr R, you have got to love the man for trying!

The perfect hand job

2009-09-29T09:03:00.003Z

He's been at it for as long as he can remember but that doesn't mean to say he won't enjoy your technique for teasing his tackle. Mutual masturbation can be an enjoyable part of your sexual repertoire and fantastic for times when you can't or just don't fancy penetrative sex. A male masturbator is always an option when pleasuring your partner but all you need to get started is your hand and a good drop of sex lubricant or masturbation cream such as Stroke 29.
There are a few simple basics to take into consideration:

You need to apply the right amount of pressure, no floppy grips or an eye popping squeeze to bring your hand job to a halt
Rhythm is important as if you were moving to music. Maintaining a strong rhythmic pump is particularly important in the build up to orgasm.
Keep an angle that isn't going to strain his manhood
Pay particular attention to his trigger points which are the penis head and V Point (the part of the foreskin where the head meets the shaft). These are areas of extreme pleasure and sensitivity for your man and concentrating your movement to stimulate these areas will really benefit him

When his cock is hard a gentle play is a good way to begin and using your own natural lubricant can be a real visual treat. Lick your fingers and slide your saliva around the penis head, running your fingertips around the underside of the head and lightly rubbing the frenulum to get him nice and hard. Once you begin pumping with your hand use a lube either drizzled directly on him or by rubbing it into your hands first. The slippery slide will feel pleasurable and enable you to use a thumb or side of finger on the up stroke to gently rub over his sensitive head.

Every man's sensitivity levels are different and it always best to listen to the response you are getting. Ask your partner to show you how he likes to masturbate and don't be afraid to take a little direction (it works both ways!) Remember that his foreskin is very thin so don't pull it down too far or too hard and fast and if your hand begins to tire, swap over or introduce another method to allow yourself time to rest.

Once you have worked a regular rhythm you should see a few signals that climax is imminent. His balls will tighten and breathing will pick up whilst his penis will bulge and even begin to pulsate in your palm. Once he is about to climax never stop your movement, keep up the rhythm until he begins to come. Begin to slow your movement once he ejaculates as the penis then becomes very sensitive and slowly come to a stop with his last contractions. After he has a come place your hand at the base of his cock and pull it up the shaft with a slight squeeze at the underside of the head to reach the last of the come - heavenly!

Derrière Delight

2009-09-22T09:37:00.003Z

The sale of anal sex toys have been growing and the diversity of pleasure objects for your posterior leaves you with oodles of choice at the checkout. Anal play is an integral part of many couples sex lives but it can also be an enjoyable part of masturbation and using sex toys for self pleasure. Here is our guide to getting started with anal stimulation.

The key to enjoying anal stimulation is to induce a state of relaxation. Anal play is best explored when you have the time to prepare for pleasure, taking a sensual bath or using other tools for a gradual building of arousal levels and sexual excitement. Begin by either reclining on the bed or chair or standing with a leg propped up for access. A clitoral vibrator is best for warming up the body, increasing blood flow and getting the nerve endings standing to attention. Once you feel aroused and ready for anal play apply a sex lubricant to your anus, either directly, or by massaging the whole area including buttocks and thighs leading to the soft folds of the anal entrance. Play at the opening of your anus to benefit from the many sensitive nerve endings there and try using a vibrating anal sex toy which will encourage the blood flow and help the muscles to relax. Relaxation is the key to enjoying an anal massage and you don't have to fully penetrate, try a gentle rub or shallow entry with a butt plug or anal probe, it can be all it takes to enhance masturbation and heighten clitoral or vaginal orgasm.

Try incorporating vaginal penetration alongside clitoral massage as it will aid anal penetration and help to build your arousal at the same time. The anal muscles work in the opposite way to the vaginal muscles, therefore when you tighten the vagina the anal muscles will relax and contract. Inserting your dildo or vibrator and pulling your vaginal muscles tightly around the shaft will contract the sphincter muscles and enable a finger or anal sex toy to penetrate more easily. The trick is to slowly insert your sex toy in stages and relax around the toy before moving it further inside. The muscles need time to adapt and the conventional 'thrusting' action of your vaginal dildo just won't be pleasurable!

Find your own pace and depth and experience the enhancement of anal stimulation to your regular masturbation or sex routine.

The Diffusion Technique

2009-09-15T10:56:00.004Z

Vibrators are the most effective sex toys as a tool for masturbation or an orgasmic aid to intercourse. The vibrations provide a stimulus that make every nerve ending stand to attention and can induce climax in record time. If your clitoris is particularly sensitive or it becomes sensitive at particular times of the month you can try keeping your panties on for masturbation. Simply slide your clitoral vibrator along the side of your inner labia and massage towards the centre of your clitoris using the material as a buffer zone. The vibrations can be felt but won't have your nerve ending twitching right down to your toes.

Similarly when approaching orgasm and arousal levels are at their maximum the vibrator can become too much stimulation, especially through the climax itself. During orgasm try the 'diffusion method' of placing two or three fingers between your vibrator and clitoris continuing to massage in your particular style. The vibration level will be softer and enable you to enjoy the waves of contraction while maintaining direct clitoral contact.

Penis Pleasers

2009-09-07T09:31:00.003Z

We have amused ourselves this Monday morning with an unscientific survey of the girls with the question "What shouldn't you do to a penis in the course of pleasure" unless of course you really want to hit a man where it hurts! Results as follows: The Penis - cold hands, palms rougher than a navvy, sharp and rough fingernails, excessive pulling, scraping teeth, pulling the foreskin back too far and comparing its size to your ex's (unless its favourable of course). When it comes to the balls it seems that slapping and spanking are a no no, coupled with squeezing or sucking too hard. Concerning the climax no pumping it like a piston straight after he's come, jabbing at the prostate, spitting out the come like its the foulest solution on earth or dribbling it into his mouth straight after. If you have suggestions of your own we would love to hear them!

The Sausage Roll

2009-09-02T09:37:00.004Z

If the thought of male masturbators makes you think of dismembered torsos and grotesque alien like latex creations, it may be time to take another look. Amongst the plethora of sex toys available the male section now houses some pretty attractive erotic accessories and masturbators can also make great couples sex toys, which can be incorporated into foreplay or used on your man as a masturbatory treat. Get him to put his feet up whilst you work a bit of masturbator magic, perhaps restraining him while you dominate proceedings or playing his favourite porn clip for sheer erotic indulgence.
A great technique for use with a male masturbator is the sausage roll. Take a soft penis sleeve masturbator of choice and apply plenty of sex lubricant. This is essential as the tug of the sex toy without a smooth slide can be painful on the sensitive skin of the penis particularly around the head.
Gently slip the penis inside, taking care to concentrate lube at the opening which is usually tight. Put your hands either side of the penis sleeve and roll it between your palms (which is why lots of lubricant is essential). Once you have built up a rolling rhythm introduce the masturbation move of an up and down stroke, this might feel tricky at first but the sensation will be amazing as the masturbator massages the penis and rolls around the sensitive areas of the foreskin.

Simultaneous lovin

2009-08-24T10:32:00.004Z

If rabbit vibrators have never been your sex toy of choice but you love the feeling of dual stimulation then adapt your dildo for double pleasure. Simply take a vibrating cock ring and place it over your dildo to the base as you would a penis during intercourse . Gently work the strokes with your dildo to maximise the contact of the vibrator against the clitoris. If you use a g spot sex toy the tip can be massaged against your pleasure spot without pulling the vibrating ring too far from your clitoral area. The feeling of fullness in the vagina whilst enjoying the nerve tingling sensation of clitoral stimulation can bring you to climax before you say bin that bunny.

Sex Toy Tester Wanted

2009-08-19T15:10:00.004Z

Wanted: Sex Toy Tester for the Sysil Edge

The sex toy manufacturer Mantric have launched a revolution in strap on sex toy. How is the Sysil Edge different from other strap on's? It has a patent pending Flexeloc Smart System that allows the penetrating dildo of the strap on to be adjusted, complementing your sex position perfectly.

Many strap on designs do not allow the wearer to realistically simulate sex, as Mantric points out many protrude high above the pubic bone where the projection of the penis wouldn't naturally originate. Sysil Edge hangs lower than other strap ons and adjusts to suit most sexual positions. This patent pending system simulates the natural thrust of sex in any position from the correct angle whether used for vaginal or anal penetration.

What else appears to be different? The phallus on the Edge is very different from the norm and as far away from a real penis as you can get. If you are looking for a double ended non-phallic sex toy the Edge seems to be a great choice.

Sysil Edge is silicone, phthalate free and has a removable vibrating bullet for cleaning.

We believe in taking a new sex toy and testing it out for ourselves and there is a chance for a couple to be a part of this process. We are looking for partners to take the Sysil Edge and put it through its paces. An honest appraisal is required to some simple questions and a lucky couple get to have much fun in the meantime!

To test the Sysil Edge simply email angelina@theboudoir.net with your details.

Anal Toy Tricks

2009-08-19T07:04:00.003Z

Anal sex toys are on the up! The sale of sex toys to stimulate this sensitive of erogenous zones has risen and continues to rise. Toys for anal play can be incorporated into self pleasure techniques and make satisfying couples sex toys. Here is a simple saucy suggestion for incorporating anal sex toys into your masturbation technique.

A good way to begin experimenting with anal stimulation is a butt plug. Choose a small plug and either a clitoral vibrator or/and dildo and begin by adding plenty of sex lubricant to your anal toy. Find a comfortable position lying on your back with legs open to the sides or one leg elevated. Begin by using your vibrator for clitoral massage in order to relax, encourage your natural lubrication and raise your arousal levels. When you are ready gently probe inwards with your butt plug, it may seem to work its own way in or need a little encouragement.

The key to using anal sex toys is to relax around the toy at each point of penetration before pushing in a little further. Remember to relax and enjoy the sensation at each stage, tensing up will only cause discomfort. Once your anal toy is firmly in place enjoy the clitoral stimulation in conjunction with the full feeling from the plug. Simultaneously using a dildo will provide an amazing set of sensations for a sheet clenching orgasm (if your hands were free!). Lubricate your dildo and remember that the plug and your sex toy will be competing for space a little and your dildo may take a little more encouragement than usual to penetrate. Once you have both sex toys in place you will benefit from increased vaginal stimulation as the plug forces the dildo into a tighter space and if you continue with the clitoral massage will take you to a powerful climax to tingle your toes!

Sex & Ice

2009-08-10T07:44:00.009Z

Ice has long been used during sex play for its stimulating sensation,
a juxtaposition of extreme cold and the extreme heat of your body. Running an ice cube over the most sensitive areas of a woman's body heightens sensation and arousal, the perfect tool for caressing the buttocks, neck, thighs, nipples and clitoris. Sex toys such as glass and Pyrex dildos can be chilled for those that desire icy cold stimulus on skin but what about the worlds first vibrating ice massager?

The Touche ice massager is a sex toy with a difference, incorporating the thrilling sensations of ice with the stimulation of a vibrator all rolled in one. The ice container can be separated from the silicone grip to fill with water and replaced to pop in the freezer until solid. When ready the ice holder can be slid off, a bit like making a kids ice lolly, with the exception of the vibrating bullet which is inserted back into the sex toy when ready. As your temperature rises the contrast of ice, silicone and vibrating bullet won't cool you down.
Remember that this icy sex toy needs adequate time to prepare (about 4 hours) so pop it back in the freezer after each use hidden behind the frozen peas!

Dildo Technique: Slippery shower suction slide

2009-07-27T14:57:00.002Z

To enjoy our slippery shower slide take 1. Dildo with a suction cup 2. Sex Lubricant 3. Shower 4. plenty of hot running water.

Get the shower steamy hot and step inside. Begin by focusing on the sensual feel of the water on your skin, beginning to awaken your senses. To get your natural lubrication flowing concentrate on some clitoral massage or use the pressure of the water flow against the clitoral area to prepare you for the dildo.

When you are ready for your dildo turn with your back against the shower wall, grab the shaft of your phallus and line it up against the opening of your vagina. Slightly bend your knees and when you feel the correct level has been achieved push the suction cup of the dildo against the shower wall. Apply plenty of water based lube to the shaft of your sex toy and gently back onto the dildo until it fully penetrates you. Enjoy the full feeling the dildo provides coupled with the warm water running down your body, sheer indulgence.

Use the walls of the shower or handles to maintain a satisfying rhythm against your toy and use your hand or choice of vibrators to massage your clitoris again to a full body climax. Remember to choose a waterproof vibrator and check its more than splash proof. Enjoy!

The Cowgirl

2009-07-02T07:04:00.003Z

The Cowgirl is a brilliant hands free position to adopt with dildos. The easiest way to do the cowgirl is to get yourself a suction cup dildo and stick it to a tabletop or tiled floor. This allows you to ride the dildo without having to grab the shaft. The problem with this is the narrow choice of location and the bathroom floor might not be the sexiest place in the house to enjoy your dildo.

A better technique for the cowgirl is to grab two cushions (folded bed pillows are perfect) and place each under your knees with the join between your legs. Apply plenty of sex lubricant to the dildo and wedge the base in the gap between the cushions. Lower yourself onto the dildo, slowly allowing the head to travel deeper inside. Once you are comfortably in position allow the cushions to absorb your weight on the downward motion and use your thighs to raise yourself towards the tip of the shaft.
You can incorporate other sex toys into the cowgirl, such as a clitoral vibrator for a stimulating massage during your rodeo. A G-Spot dildo feels great if you add a gyrating motion to your ride and using the dildo in this way gives your partner a fantastic floor show. Yeehaa!

Licking The Lolly Pop

2009-06-24T10:01:00.003Z

Combining dildos with oral sex is an intensely pleasurable route to climax. Begin by getting your partner to lie on her back with legs apart and head supported. Take a good sex lubricant and lightly cover the head and shaft of the dildo with the lube. Concentrating on her inner thighs to begin with lightly trace the tip of the dildo and your tongue against the soft sensitive skin.

The contrast of hard smooth dildo and soft wet tongue will heighten the senses and lead to anticipation of what is to come.

Gradually work your way up to the vaginal opening and begin by circling the head of the dildo inside the inner lips at the entrance whilst running your tongue along the inner lips from top to bottom. The natural lubrication will have made it easier to begin gently pushing the dildo shaft further in and at the same time increase the pressure of the tongue against the clitoris ready for the final stage. When using a dildo on another it is worth Remembering that dildos are often longer than a penis and it might not be comfortable to insert the entire length of the shaft.

Once a pleasurable length has been reached begin pumping the dildo into the vagina and begin regular rotations over the clit, concentrating on the bud once it has swollen. Build up the rhythm and pressure to sheet clenching climax. Licking the lolly pop is cunnilingus to die for!

Bound To Please

2009-06-23T07:25:00.003Z

Shibari is an extremely complex form of rope bondage which originated in Japan. The word translates as to 'tie' or to 'bind' and refers to the intricate weaving of rope against skin.
It appears that Shibari is less about sex and more about aesthetics with its practitioners extolling the beauty of rope against skin.
The bondage technique may not be a 'sex ' exercise in the traditional sense but the swell of flesh around taught rope and complete submission in pose is certainly sexy nonetheless.
If furry cuffs are just don't turn you on to soft bondage give Japanese Bondage Rope a try. The rope has a slight stretchy feel to the material and does not chafe or burn the skin. Instructions are included for simple bondage knot techniques and you will soon be able to live out your own Geisha girl fantasies!

Finger Tingles

2009-06-17T09:09:00.004Z

The Rocks Off RO80mm Bullet has been one of those sex toys that quickly established itself as a firm favourite shortly after it arrived. The bullet has become our best selling clitoral vibrator due to its power and simplicity, with one push button control and a sleek torpedo shape supremely suited to nestle amidst the inner labia. How could you possibly better that? Well the ever forward thinking folks at Rocks Off have released a version of the bullet with the ability to harness the power of the mighty RO 80mm and transfer it to your finger.

Finger Tingles is a finger vibrator with multiple uses. Simply pop your finger through the hole and rest the curved line of the silicone casing against your pubic mound. The vibrations travel down from the bullet into the silicone surround and your finger for clitoral stimulation with finger tip control. Lets face it you can't beat the soft tactile feel of skin and your finger during masturbation and Finger Tingles enables the added joy of vibration for increased orgasmic pleasure.

If you want to revert to the bullet massaging the clitoris directly during periods of reduced sensitivity or steamy sex sessions then simply remove from the silicone attachment.

Clitoral Play

2009-06-08T16:08:00.003Z

When beginning with clitoral play its a good idea to apply a sex lubricant to the entire vulva including the clitoris, inner labia and outer labia. If you prefer insert a finger into your vagina and transfer your natural lubrication instead.

Get familiar with your clitoris and discover the most pleasurable parts to concentrate the stimulation. Use a finger tip to slowly rub the sides of your clitoris familiarising yourself with its size, shape and sensitive zones.

Run your finger or clitoral vibrator along the entire length, stimulating the inner clitoral and inner labia nerve endings. You will now begin to feel a plumpness in your lips and any further play should result in a heightened sensitivity.

When using a clit stim or your finger contract your pelvic muscles as you feel the pleasant sensations build up. Continue to 'pump' your pelvic muscles as the pleasure rises as it increases lubrication, assists the arrival of orgasm and intensifies the climax when it happens.
Try to stimulate the clitoris to the point of its 'erection' whereby it pops out from under the hood and can be clearly seen. Increase your speed on this area now in order to build towards climax.Direct pressure to this area is often too much for most women and using the inner lips to rub over the clit creates a buffer, enabling only the pleasant feelings from this sensitive area.
Breathing is an important part of masturbation and deeper breaths will carry more oxygen around the body aiding blood flow and making you feel more relaxed. Gently move your hips it can help to induce orgasm and makes the pelvic squeeze easier to maintain.

You may want to increase your massaging speed as orgasm approaches or if using a vibrator increase the vibration level in the latter stages of masturbation. Hold the pelvic muscles as you feel orgasm approaching and remember to take a big breath as your climax begins, it serves to send the pleasure right to the tips of your toes and extends the orgasmic experience.

The Californian Condom for your Sex Toy

2009-06-05T11:36:00.002Z

California Exotic Novelties has introduced Toy Covers to their world dominating range. The 'Toy Cover' is an adult product the company claims will provide new levels of personal hygiene as well as protection to your chosen toy.
Toy Covers replace the condom for toy use and is soley designed for sex aids as it has no reservoir tip and no lubrication. Toy Covers are made from latex so make sure you are not an allergy sufferer before use.

The Toy Cover is available in small and standard size, with the standard being suitable for most average sized vibrators.

Covering up your toy is essential if you plan on sharing your sex toys and if you switch between anal and vaginal use. Sex Toy Cleaner can also be used on the toy cover although in the main this appears to defeat the object! If a toy is particularly hard to scrub up use the toy cover and discard it as you would a condom.

Utopia

2009-06-02T08:54:00.004Z

Its always great when a sex toy comes along that causes a stir with the girls in the office and since its arrival we have all been getting very excited about Utopia.

When it comes to Rabbit Vibrators the Thruster Rabbit has long been our biggest selling toy.

Its appeal as a pumping vibrator with clitoral stimulation has not waned since it crashed through the doors of The Boudoir many moons ago.

Utopia is a thruster with a difference in that the seven rows of internal beads do two different things.

This ladies, is a multi tasking vibrator to take dual stimulation to another dimension.

The first larger beads at the head of the thruster simultaneously thrust and rotate whilst the lower row of four beads thrusts at the entrance to the vagina.

Team this with the vibrating ears for clitoral stimulation and you have a cocktail of sensation to blow you away!

We had a resounding yes or rather "yes, yes, YES" from our testers and we are sure Utopia will be a firm favourite for a while to come.

Are Intelligent Men More Sexy?

2009-05-29T08:56:00.004Z

We have recently had a debate in the office (the usual tea break deliberation) about the attractiveness of intelligent men and what it is that creates that sexual allure that many of us find compelling in the bedroom.

Now I have never been a fan of the beef cake or the David Beckham where poor eloquence is made up with perfect masculine honing. In my younger days my crush was Louix Theroux who although looks like a slightly geeky Oxford academic used to get me juicy wet watching weird weekends in my room. Another crush was John Thaw as Inspector Morse (I have since found out shared by many) the intellectual, Opera loving, classic car driving Inspector we all secretly wanted to conquer and overcome in a sexual frenzy accompanied to one of his usual operatic choruses on full pelt (Ok that was just my fantasy I digress).

The question is what drives the sexual desire for the 'thinking women's crumpet'?

One theory is that intelligence is associated with success so psychologically we are attracted to an Alpha Male who author Mark Prokosch PHD says " ensures material benefits now, and later could pass on these desirable traits to his offspring".

I'm not entirely buying the basic human urge to produce more intelligent children line and instead simply base the urge to fuck an intelligent man on the various sexual receptors he gives off, usually unwittingly.

Eloquence is sexy there is no denying, when a man can manipulate his tongue in ways that stimulate your mind it also stimulates the loins.

The mind and body are inextricably linked and eloquence can be foreplay to many, a sex toy for the mind. Intelligent men also tend to exude a confidence that proves irresistible. Without an egoism this can prove a very powerful aphrodisiac which turns on us girls.

They say knowledge is power and for us thinking girls it holds a sexual power we find achingly alluring.

Sex Toys with character-Cute or Creepy

2009-05-28T14:36:00.010Z

Bunnies, fish, dolphins, mice, hardly things that spring to mind when you are ruminating objects of masturbation, but there has long been a tradition of sex toys fashioned from cute characters to grab our attention. One woman's 'must have' is anothers cheesy and downright weird but these lovable vibrating characters are certainly here to stay and here is our pick of the cutest.

1. Hello Kitty - The ultimate sex toy for those that wish to deny that they enjoy rubbing vibrating implements on their genitalia. The Hello Kitty Vibrator has to be a classic and we would probably suggest collectors item rather than practical sex toy. With more creases than Gordan ramsey's face there is a hygiene issue but if you love all that's cute and girly and the idea of masturbating with an iconic girl's toy floats your boat then Hello Kitty's for you.

2. I Rub My Duckie is the cute bath time accessory with hidden vibrator ability. An excuse to take long baths with plenty of bubbles and the door firmly locked. I Rub My Duckie would have got the top spot for practicality but doesn't quite have the cute factor for the number one vibrator slot.

3. Mini Mini Mouse from Doc Johnson has to be the sweetest little thing you have seen. Beady eyes and cute pointy ears. Don't be fooled though as this thing goes like stink. A clitoral vibrator as cute baby mouse, some might say strange we say its a turbo bullet in disguise, go with it.

4. Ramsey Rabbit from Rocks Off definitely my favourite sex toy in the cute category. Sweet and obliging with silicone ears to tantalise and tease. The vibrations are brilliant as Ramsey Rabbit is actually housing the RO 80mm bullet with all its clitoral vibrator potency.

5. Mini Dolphin Vibrator from Fun Factory doesn't immediately just out at you as the most novel of sex toys but its sleek silicone dolphin shape and smiley face does it for the cute factor. True to form with Fun Factory toys the Mini Dolphin is quiet and powerful so full points for practicality too.

The Dildo Debate

2009-05-21T10:33:00.005Z

Here at the office this afternoon we have had the great dildo debate (well its nearly a long weekend). After much deliberating we have formed two distinct factions, the soft or solid groups.

Now we all want our dildos hard as ultimately that's the aim of the game but the great divide occurs when it comes down to the material used. Jelly, latex and rubber dildos are soft & tactile but being porous are harder to keep clean and absorb lubricant at a much faster rate. "Wait" cried the softies (hence forth named) Silicone dildos are gloriously soft and skin like, will warm to your body temperature in a flash, contain no chemicals and can be put in the dishwasher for a super duper sterile hot wash.

The solids argue that glass dildos have similar qualities being hypoallergenic, non-porous and dishwasher safe. The glass dildo can also be cooled as well as warmed and they get the aesthetes vote with their array of beautiful colours and swirls. Ceramic and wooden dildos are also more of a sensual art form and are extremely durable if cared for properly. The seasoned dildo users argue that the solid dildo is better at reaching the g spot as the harder material applies better pressure to our pleasure zone.

Hard, soft which dildo do you prefer?

Bums Like Barbie

2009-05-18T09:40:00.004Z

There is a tendency to jump on every intimate product offered to us ladies of which there are many new products and consumables every month. I had noticed other stores offering anal bleaching kits of late and was approached by a pharmaceutical company last month with a range of 'body enhancing' products for women of which a 'bum bleach' was the main line.

I had heard of this procedure gaining momentum in the States, whereby women visit there cosmetic surgeon for an anal lightening session. It appears there are more sparkly white, self obsessed ass holes in LA than you think. So over it comes and us ladies can now purchase the privilege of a bum hole as bright as Barbies without visiting a surgeon.

Don't we have enough to feel insecure about? Obviously not, now we have to compare the colour of our anus, developing a nation of teenage girls bending over backwards in a full length mirror lamenting over the shade of their asshole.

Who is it for? I certainly don't preoccupy myself with the hue of my ass and if your partner is lucky enough to get up close and personal the last thing he's doing is whipping out a colour chart and sizing up the shade of your sphincter.

One anal bleach manufacturer offers a 'more youthful appearance' for your anal area, as if the compliments will soon start flooding in (must remember to bend over with legs apart in Gym changing room just to show off my babies bum).

So sorry you won't be seeing anal bleach on my shelves we will save it for porn stars close ups and the grossly self obsessed. Am I the only person to see the irony in becoming anal about your anus?

PS: Joking aside if you decide to sparkle the starfish please choose a less harsh variety as long term use of these chemicals on your anus can actually cause a loss of natural pigmentation. The carcinogenic content of some bleaching kits can cause liver failure, cancer, mercury poisoning and misuse can leave serious chemical burns. Enjoy!

Masturbation on Prescription

2009-05-13T14:42:00.002Z

The electrically powered vibrator was invented by a Matthew Henley for the treatment of female hysteria, therefore the vibrator was conceived as a medical instrument rather than the sensual object we love today.

Female hysteria is an interesting one the symptoms including, bloating, anxiety, irritability, insomnia and a 'tendency to cause trouble'.

The remedy for this 'hysteria' was a pelvic massage, yes you have it a bloody good rubbing to the genital area.

So lets get this straight, the vibrator was in fact invented to masturbate women who attended the doctor in victorian times with pre-menstrual syndrome.

It was documented that doctors found this a 'chore' and 'time consuming' and at no time was the practice alluded to as sexual in nature.

At a time when sexual repression was rife amongst polite society you could in fact attend the doctors with raging PMS and get a free fanny rubbing with a vibrator to melt all of those niggling symptoms away. Whatever's happened to the NHS!

The Vagina Doctor Juicing Her Mangos

2009-05-12T12:38:00.002Z

Samantha Bachman (AKA The Vagina Doctor) has been travelling the globe for many years working on behalf women in third world countries in relation to vaginal hygiene, sex education and menstrual issues.

Her journey into Africa introduced her to the practice of female genital mutilation and so began her global action to bring attention to, and erase this barbaric practise.

What better way to grab our attention than with The Mango Juicer, a sex toy like no other, able to juice mango's and juice your mango with its effective G Spot curve to the tip. Its cunning disguise enables its transit into countries where religious and cultural belief prevents the use of sex toys and female masturbation.

Profits are donated to charities working towards eradicating the practice of female genital mutilation so a much worthy purchase for any supporter of human rights and juicing mango's.

Male Sex Stats

2009-05-11T14:33:00.004Z

Some interesting sex statistics on the opposite sex:

50% of men share all of their sexual fantasies with their partner.
We assume the other 50% are wanking away to thoughts of your best friend or a menage a trois with you and your sister.

20% have told a woman they love her just to get laid
You dirty scoundrels although it begs the question why we would believe professions of absolute love on the first few dates?

23% of men have faked an orgasm during sex more than once
Lets hope its 20% of the above it would serve them right

19% of men have paid for sex at least once

11% of men don't masturbate
Now come on we all know that's just what you told the nice lady with the clipboard

iCome MP3 Vibrator

2009-05-08T07:31:00.002Z

'If music be the food of love play on' how times have changed when music can now be the source of orgasmic pleasure. You suspect that Duke Orsino may have got his girl had he presented her with an iCome vibrator that pleases the lady with rhythmic waves of vibrating pleasure by buzzing to the beat.

The iCome vibrator plugs into either a MP3, PC or CD Player and delivers vibrations in synch with your music of choice. Whether you opt for Mozart or Metallica raising the volume or changing the tune will alter the vibration pattern.

Who's knows it may dictate a complete change in musical taste - thrash metal it is then!

Happy Slapping

2009-05-06T16:10:00.002Z

The enjoyment of pain and pleasure has long been part of the adventurous partners sexual repertoire and bondage at the boudoir has become a popular area for the couples looking to spice up their sex life. Wicked tease and tickles are a great way to raise sensitivity on the skin and a saucy spank helps to get the adrenalin pumping and speed up blood flow to your genitals for heightened sensation.

The line between pleasure and pain is a fine one so follow these rules for naughty happy slapping.

1. Using whips and paddles is best in a relationship where an element of trust is prevalent. It would be fool hardy to enter into bondage play with somebody you don't know that well.

2. Practise with a new toy on yourself to get the measure of its effect. Spank your hand or thigh to tell how much force to employ.

3. Men have thicker skin than women (yes we mean in a literal sense). A woman's nerve endings are closer to the surface than men's making them more susceptible to pain which should be bore in mind during play.

4. A better way to use bondage toys is to intersperse slaps with tickles and whips with strokes. The contrast in sensation will benefit you more in both pain and pleasure quarters.

5. Spank the thighs and buttocks, never the front upper torso or front of the body. If it turns you on whips, paddles and crops should only tease and stroke the genitals not strike for obvious reasons!

The Madonna Nudes

2009-05-05T16:40:00.003Z

The Impure Art Gallery in Brighton is showing the original black and white photographs of Madonna taken by photographer Martin Schreiber.

The photographs reflect a period when a young Madonna spent a short time with Schreiber modelling for the photos to pay her way through dance school. There are fully nude photographs displaying the dancers enviable honed and toned body.

The photos reflect a more vulnerable girl before the mega star material girl we know today with Madge collecting just $30 for the modelling.

The limited edition photographs will be on sale at the exhibitions as well as copies of the original playboy magazine in which they featured.

Impure Art is Britain's only permanent commercial erotic art gallery and has been established a year. The exhibition opens as part of Brighton's Fringe Festival and runs from May 1st-June 28th.

For more info visit http://www.impureart.com/.

The Male Pleasure Spot

2009-04-27T07:25:00.002Z

If there is one type of sex toy that we have seen grow in popularity over the past few years its the prostate stimulator. Most of us have heard of the prostate & it seems that many are discovering its pleasure giving properties. Where us ladies have long been experimenting with the glorious G, couples are certainly getting comfortable with the P spot & its route to male orgasmic pleasure

Where is it? If he's isn't comfortable with anal penetration then stimulating the prostate will be difficult as its located a few centimetres up the front rectal wall. A lubricated finger inserted to this length is enough to apply pressure to the prostate gland & when in full swing can elevate his orgasm to knee trembling proportions.

When it comes to toys take your pick. Most sex toy manufacturers have developed a prostate toy of some description & our two favourite picks are Rocks Off who have introduced & expanded a range of prostate vibrators to suit the beginner to professional P massager & Nexus who have become masters of this male erogenous zone.

We have noticed lots of couples adopting this sex toy for enjoyment together & it can be incorporated into intercourse, oral sex or as part of role play.

Our favourite Prostate Massagers:

Nexus Excel - The first & most popular prostate toy

Rude Boy - Can you be?

P Spot - A mighty effort from Tantus

Bob - Designer P Spot massage from Lelo

Sexy & Pregnant

2009-04-20T17:16:00.002Z

Just because you are pregnant it doesn't mean you have to give up being sexy. Hanging from the chandeliers may have to be postponed for now but enjoying sex & sex toys during a low risk normal pregnancy is safe & can feel better than usual. The cocktail of hormones whizzing around your body can raise libido with increased blood flow heightening genital sensitivity.
Intercourse as well as the use of vibrators & dildos are generally safe during your pregnancy & Clitoral vibrators will make best use of your new found sensitivities.
Orgasm can also be beneficial when pregnant helping to calm bloating, relieve headaches & stress & induce better sleep.
You don't have to have the usual concerns about your lumps & bumps or worry about falling pregnant so let your inhibitions go & enjoy your 9 months.

Its the sex toy delivery boy

2009-04-17T16:16:00.002Z

A Chicago based sex toy retailer have introduced a one hour sex toy delivery by bicycle. Yes you can call the Kinky llama who will fulfill your sexual requirements within 60 minutes.

The project was initiated by the owner after the desire to add spice to a night in with his girlfriend. Anthony Mikrut stated " You can get pizza any time of the night, why can't you get toys?" Mr Mikrut we agree and applaud you for your very convenient saucy service & green mode of sex toy dispatch. Not surprisingly most of his customers are women, well when the fancy takes us!

Clitoral Sensitivity

2009-04-15T09:46:00.003Z

Have you ever noticed how clitoral sensitivity changes throughout your monthly cycle. You grab your usual vibrating bunny or buzzy clit stim turn it on to max and well its just not doing it for you, at other times just walking down the street in a tighter than usual pair of jeans gets you swollen in the lady part department. We decided to look into the issue of clitoral sensitivity & guess what its probably the usual cocktail of hormones that effects this pleasure spot.

Lower estrogen levels which occur at certain points in your cycle may lead to changes in your genital tissues, clitoral sensitivity and your sexual responsiveness. Your estrogen levels rise as your eggs mature which probably explains why you may feel more sensitivity at your most fertile period.

If you find that you need a clitoral vibrator with extra boost at times of lower estrogen try a bullet vibrator, they tend to deliver strong concentrated vibrations to combat a lesser sensitivity & the torpedo shape fits perfectly alongside your inner lips.

We love the Rocks off RO80mm Bullets & Ramsey Rabbit for strong vibrations.

The Ramsey is brilliant for both types of day as the silicone bunny can be removed from the bullet for stronger vibrations and placed back on for days of better sensitivity.

Real Feel versus Plastic Fantastic

2009-04-14T14:23:00.003Z

We would like to see Harry Hill pit the realistic sex toy against the new female, airport scanner, mother in law just saw my clit stim on the bathroom shelf friendly sex toys that are a plenty in the adult market.

In his satirical show we would like to see Harry introduce the realistic dildo from one door & the smooth lines of a discreet 'pebble' creation from the other & see the carnage ensue as we all yell 'fight'.

Its a hard choice do you prefer the vein popping, realistic 8 inch with every manly detail in its full glory or shiny 'pleasure object' your mother would probably dust & place on the mantelpiece mistaking it as your latest purchase from the John Lewis home department?

There are benefits to both types of sex toy & discretion has to be on the side of the sex toy creation with innocent styling. The scanner at Heathrow would hardly notice the Lelo Nea passing through baggage control but the Prince Charming dildo is going to look like a cock in your case whichever way you turn it. The realistic sex toy has to win in the getting down & dirty stakes though as the realistic dildo makes a sexy prop for fantasy play or turning your partner on in foreplay. If you both fantasise about you (or your man) being taken by a huge male member the small pink vibrating butterfly just doesn't provide the erotic aesthetics, whereas the natural dildo will provide the necessary visuals to have you both wet.

Designer chic over detailed dildo, pulsating pleasure object over vein popping penis its a hard choice but we would say both have their place in the bedroom & why limit yourself to one genre when you can try them all!

The best of both: Cupids Finger Tingler Airport friendly sex toy

Lipstick Vibrator Handbag safe

Brush Bunny Hotel bathroom friendly

Boy Wonder Realistic dildo with vibrations

Mr Perfect The perfect Realistic proportions

Poochy Pleasure

2009-04-08T10:07:00.002Z

We like to have a giggle at the many misguided sex toy creations that enter the adult market on a monthly basis but there's certainly one thing I didn't bank on seeing - a sex doll for your dog.

It may not be a looker but the firm rubber Hot Doll dog has all the correct anatomy to please the horniest of hounds. It may seem like a completely crazy innovation but we actually see some sense in a sex toy for dogs in a world where we have doggy clothing, bags, jewelry, beauty salons & designer housing. Lets face it practicality has to be top of the list & it saves your leg, child's teddy, arm of the sofa the degradation.

Bigger Boobies Myth

2009-04-06T13:42:00.002Z

Contrary to popular belief & common projections of young women coveting silicone enhancement before puberty is all but over, figures released in November reveal that a quarter of all British women would actually like to reduce their beast size.

The research conducted by Figleaves in October last year & the British Chiropractic association show that 70% of the women surveyed suffered from back pain due to large breasts & nearly half said that they affected their posture.

The average British bra size currently measures in at a cleavage loving 34DD & support for the breasts should be the number one priority over fashion when it comes to housing the Brits blooming boobies. Despite the longer term consequences of inadequate support for the breasts it seems that embarrassment prevents many women going along to be properly fitted with nearly half of the women surveyed stating they were 'too shy' to be professionally fitted & 25% put the lack of a correctly fitted bra down to time constraints.

We-Vibe goes to Hollywood

2009-04-05T08:01:00.003Z

One of the unusual stars at the celeb & media secret gifting room during the Oscars ceremony was the We-Vibe. The aim of the appearance was to demonstrate to the mainstream that the We-Vibe is a non-threatening, elegant sex toy ideal for couples pleasure & female masturbation without being the phallic adult device most people are used to seeing.

The we-vibe had many celebrity takers including MTV personality Tila Tequila, actor Mario Lopez & 90210 star AnnaLynne McCord.

The men seemed as enthusiastic as the women with the general consensus being that spicing up your sex life is a good idea with a happy woman making for a happy man in the bedroom.

The manufacturer says that over 80,000 We-Vibes have been sold around the world since its 2008 launch.

The First Green Sex Toy

2009-04-02T08:46:00.000Z

A revolutionary product is about to hit the market & it needs neither batteries nor electric to bring it to life. Earth Angel is the adult markets first fully green sex toy, a vibrator with an Eco friendly patented technology, made from fully recycled parts with recyclable packaging.

Although there have been some attempts at solar & lunar powered sex toys the producer of Earth Angel claim it will perform as well as battery powered toys without the expense & landfill waste.

Earth Angel does demonstrate though that greener living does take effort & the vibrator needs about 4 minutes of handle cranking to deliver 30 minutes of buzz. Eight minutes of arm effort will retain a full charge with an hours use. The colour is white only & the Earth Angel has a natty set of lights to tell you when to get cranking your handle. Spur of the moment masturbation might be a problem unless winding up the vibrator becomes part of your routine but we love the concept & the move into a greener sex toy concept.

If David were to buy Victoria a sex toy....

2009-04-01T09:24:00.004Z

Lelo have certainly pulled out all the stops on the designer sex toy front with the introduction of its Inez. The company describes the Inez as the most exclusive vibrator ever made & it has to be the most expensive retailing at £5090 for the gold version.

Inez is available in both steel & gold with five pre-programmed stimulation modes & a virtually silent motor with two hour re-charge providing four hours of use.

It has been mentioned in the office that at £5000 we would want Patrick Dempsey to hand deliver it with a private hands on demonstration of the sex toys charms.

That said if you have won the lottery, are married to David Beckham, consider your sex toy collection future heirlooms or are totally oblivious of the current economic crisis the Inez is available at Lelo & comes with a rather fetching wooden display box & satin pouch bargain!

A List Sex

2009-03-23T11:11:00.002Z

A list sex scenes are always polished pokery at its best. Lighting, makeup, camera shot, strategically placed bed sheets & screams & moans of Ecstasy that any stage school mistress would be proud of. Re-enacting a scene from your favourite movie can bring on some erotic fantasy fun for us mere mortals too, simply watch the scene of choice & act it out with your own x rated ending of course. A vote in the office opted for Kim Basinger's strip scene in 91/2 weeks to Joe Cocker's 'You can leave your hat on', extremely sexy & the song is perfect for strip tease.

If you want a mainstream movie with sex toys incorporated in actual scenes try the following:

Immoral Tales 1974 with vaginal pearl insertion by Marie Forså, Interno di un convento with wooden dildo insertion by Olivia Pascal, Shortbus where TV personality and singer Sook-Yin Lee is shown using a sextoy during a masturbation scene.

Smooth as Silk

2009-03-19T08:44:00.004Z

We all grabbed a bottle of Sliquid Smooth when it arrived, the only consideration was which scent to choose.

Smooth from Sliquid is an intimate cream for a shave on your delicate parts which applies to any body hair. It is paraben & glycerin free & as Sliquid don't contribute to animal cruelty is also lanolin free & 100% Vegan friendly.

Ok so it ticks all the boxes on the conscious consumer front but how does it stand up in the shower? Sliquid claims that Smooth is formulated for sensitive skins with a formulation that protects & moisturises, eliminating the red rash you can get after an intimate shave.

We all used it on our bikini area & it was great, I usually suffer with sore patches after an intimate shave but the sliquid smooth left my skin smooth & clear. A resounding thumbs up.

You don't need much which is good as it costs more than your average shave cream but if your bikini line is the most sensitive area it s a fab buy to keep just for your buffed brazilian.

Its Spring Lets Make Like Bunnies

2009-03-13T09:15:00.004Z

We know we shouldn't but we love the bunny harness by wolf princess designs.

The Rabbit harness is a fully functional strap on with a difference & features a foft pink faux fur for maximum comfort with a bunny tail that actually squeaks when its squeezed .

Why not go the whole way for easter & don the ears & paws, disappear under the duvet & f*** like rabbits this springtime!

Kinky Cakes

2009-03-11T15:43:00.002Z

If there is one thing we love in The Boudoir office (after sex toys that is!) is cake.

We are something of experts & usually favour the rich chocolate sponge or vanilla cream with smooth icing or carrot cake with creamy cheese topping or a bakewell tart or moist muffins -enough enough!

Anyway we have an impending 40th birthday & have decided to indulge our Julie in a Debbie Brown kinky cake as we truly love her quirky designs. There is an absence of chocolate willies & instead sexy scenarios with humorous ladies & gents strutting their stuff.

We have opted for the Firemen & their huge hose (Julies fantasy once told at our office party while completely intoxicated) a perfect 40th birthday cake for a very naughty girl.

The Gigolo

2009-03-09T13:32:00.004Z

If I had millions at my disposal & fancied the charms of a gigolo it would conjure images of Daniel Craig, George Clooney & even David Beckham (minus the ponytail). Who it wouldn't bring to mind is Helg Sgarbi the guy currently on trial for seducing one of Germany's wealthiest women. A former swiss investment banker Sgarbi labelled 'The Gigolo' has reportedly seduced 4 wealthy women the latest being the majority shareholder in BMW cars with a view to blackmailing & extorting money from them.

We would rather stick with our own Gigolo its more discreet, more handsome & would save us about £900,000!

Have Tenga cracked it with its Egg Masturbator

2009-03-09T09:08:00.004Z

Tenga are synonymous with 'upmarket' adult products & produce male masturbators with revolutionary Japanese design coupled with chic styling. If you are looking for an adult product for use alone or as part of a pair then Tenga professes to revolutionise your sexual experience & transform the traditional male products on the market.

The latest offering from Tenga is the Egg & yes it does look like six of the farmers best but once you have cracked open the Tenga Egg a super stretchy silicone sleeve is inside giving a superb sensation to aid masturbation.

The egg comes in Clicker, Wavy & Spider variations depending on the pattern of interior you prefer.

Although the Tenga blurb states they are great for couples when sex isn't an option we think they are great for when sex is an option but you want a change from the old routine.

Women Love Porn Too

2009-03-06T11:18:00.003Z

Traditionally the appreciation of pornography has been a male preserve with films that focus on areas for male gratification with less foreplay & more fucking.

Times are a changing & women are becoming more outspoken about their use of pornography inside a relationship & for masturbation. With production companies such as Joybear & Anna Span introducing a new porn perspective which breaks away from the traditional male point of view, porn has become much more stimulating for us ladies too.

If you don't fancy the idea of visiting a licensed premises for your porn fix then surf the net for some quality snips. Save cash & take a look at some quality free porn sites such as Youporn which features amateurs & budding porn stars alike.

(Check out the male strip shows for pure entertainment value & you truly realise how naughty women can be when we get together!)

Does Good Sex Begin in your 30's?

2009-03-05T08:37:00.003Z

We can all remember the initial sexual encounters we had, blind fumblings, awkward sex & no real knowledge yet of how to please yourself or others.

I may have been fitter, firmer & partaking in more recreational sex in my twenties but in retrospect was I having more fun?

The answer has to be no, so why am I finding sex in my thirties more satisfying than at any other time?

Yes our bodies are not what they used to be but they are relatively fit & firm & strangely we feel more confident about our bits. Our erogenous zones seem more responsive but then we know the right buttons to press. A mixture of long & short term sexual relationships has given us a knowledge & experience to understand what we want in bed. We have experience of pleasing ourselves & are not afraid to use sex toys alone or in relationships. Overall we know that faking orgasms & emulating the feigned porn star levels of sexual enjoyment in the bedroom aren't what makes for a satisfying sexual experience.

More Mrs Robinson than Bridget Jones, a thirty something woman knows exactly what she wants & boy do we know how to get it!

Best Selling Couples Toy

2009-03-03T08:50:00.003Z

The Boudoir's best selling couples sex toy is .....the humble cock ring. The vibrating cock ring has become the primary couples choice & we can see why. The cock ring maintains an erection for longer but more importantly for us girls the vibrating versions provide a fantastic buzz to the clitoris which gives us a much greater chance of orgasm during penetrative sex (the number of women who orgasm during penetrative sex alone is reported to be as low as 24%- with 14% who have never experienced an orgasm at all ).

The biggest rise in sales has been with the disposable cock ring which is largely due to couples initially experimenting with a cheaper product but also due to its increased use during casual sex. It is no longer considered 'bad sexual etiquette' to produce a sex toy during a casual encounter & a cock ring is a discreet effective way of ensuring female pleasure.

The Dinky banger & Ring of Venus are popular re-usable versions & many of our toy testers list cock rings as one of the regular sex toys they use as part of their sexual routine.

Sexy Outfit as Sexual Semaphore

2009-03-02T09:19:00.002Z

Dressing for sex acts as a type of sexual semaphore sending different messages to your partner depending on the sexy guise you choose. Virgin or slut, a sexy outfit will set the stage for your sexual performance & dictate roles for you both during your sex play.

Dressing up can really turn you both on & satisfy fantasies for you both to act out. Clothes don't just alter your appearance but can also benefit your sexual confidence & behaviour. As soon as you put on a sexy outfit you will find acting out your chosen role much easier. If you find your confidence wavering in the bedroom but want to take the lead or fancy turning up your naughty factor a notch donning a naughty outfit can boost your confidence & make it much easier to strut your stuff or exert your sexual power.

Every girl should own a pair of f*** me heels, you know the pair that would cripple you on an evenings outing but would look at home on the tables of the best dancing establishments.

You don't even have to invest in expensive clothing simply put on your best naughty nicks or crotchless panties team with a pair of heels, you can keep them both on & let your inhibitions go.

Masturbate Every Day

2009-02-27T15:54:00.003Z

Do you have a daily orgasm routine? If your libido is flagging then put aside some time every day to masturbate. The more sex we have the more we want so a regular orgasm will actually have the effect of increasing your libido. The sexual neural pathways in your brain are triggered making them bigger & stronger hey presto!

Don't fall into the trap of laying in the same position & masturbating to the same routine.

Choose your finger with Sex lubricant, try a variety of toys from clitoral vibrators to small classic vibrators to stimulate your clit. Try standing or kneeling & use erotic fiction or porn to turn you on.

The regular orgasms will make your skin look better, improve your general mood & release more pheromones making you even more attractive to the opposite sex!

The healing effects of orgasm

2009-02-26T08:19:00.003Z

We know sex is enjoyable but did you consider the healing effects of your orgasm too?

When we orgasm the body releases endorphins, our happy hormone which improves our sense of well being & general outlook. Similar to the effects of munching our favourite bar of chocolate the hormone is released into our system when we climax to give us a happy boost. Sex or chocolate?, sex or chocolate? a tough one but why not sex & chocolate for a messy but massive endorphin fuelled meltdown!

As well as chemical release, sex & orgasm tones your muscles & increases blood flow for a happier & healthier you - an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

A Condom For When Size Matters

2009-02-25T08:29:00.000Z

You know you have struck it lucky when on your first night with that new man he produces his own condom to demonstrate his glorious donkey like proportions.

The condometric is a condom with non smudge ruler printed on the size so yes ladies you can actually see the measurement of his manhood.

The condometric for the man who has it & wants to flaunt it & standing proud in the condometric certainly does that.

Where we ever curious about our mans cock? lets face it girls we don't need a ruler on a condom to tell the size of his pride & joy.

Ok so spacial awareness may not be our thing but where we fall down on reverse parking we make it up by telling you the size of your penis to the nearest millimetre after first experiencing its delights - somethings just matter!

Dave Stewart - Sexy?

2009-02-24T10:51:00.003Z

A strange collaboration, Dave Stewart & designer sex toy manufacturer JimmyJane have teamed up for a special edition of the Little Something.

A luxury vibe & former Eurythmic Dave Stewart?

The vibrator comes with the chorus from the song written on the sides & you can download the single with a special code with your JimmyJane purchase.

Sierra Swan has been drafted in for a 'provocative video'? which indeed includes provocative flouncing but we can see little sexy about the song or collaboration.

Maybe its just my line of work but all I could think was god you have let a customer in the changing room with a vibrator - its not try before you buy & certainly not at $.

Whats next Barry Manilow & Knicker Critters!!

Sex Toys For Young Mums

2009-02-23T20:16:00.002Z

Mantric have introduced a brand new Siena range of sex toys with a difference. There are three models currently available the Symphony, Concerto & Rondo. The effort put into producing these sex toys is extensive & Mantric claim that their engineers spent four years getting the formula just right.

Mantric state their are three differences with these sex toys, the vibration system, destinctive design & engineering.

The vibrations from the Siena series toys penetrates beneath the skin & into the muscle with deep vibration levels. Along with this the vibrators are extremely quiet which is why Mantric dubbed the development stealth project.

Mantric ran a series of workshops to decipher what to focus on with this new range of sex toys & came up with the answers that women need power but stimulation at lower speeds, quietness as many new mums needed to keep the noise level down in the bedroom & completely waterproof as many women stated their 'waterproof sex toy' sprung leaks.

The resulting Siena Series has hit the market & we will keep you posted on our toy testers feedback.

The We-Vibe

2009-02-21T17:01:00.002Z

Many couples are looking for a product to provide stimulation during sexual intercourse. Usually a vibrating cock ring or discreet vibrator is the only answer, adopting a sexual position that allows manual stimulation during sex. That was until Canadian based sex toy manufacturer Standard Innovation Corporation came up with the We-Vibe.

The we-Vibe is something of a unique sex toy in that the woman can insert the toy whilst having sex. The We Vibe provides strong vibrations to your clitoris during intercourse or can be used alone to stimulate the g-spot. The We-Vibe is phthalate free, waterproof & made from medical grade silicone. A truly innovative sex toy, winner of the 'Toy of the year' by viewers of Talk Sex with Sue Johanson, the We-Vibe is making a big buzz in the sex toy market & will for time to come.

Orgasm Facts

2009-02-19T10:21:00.003Z

Women are most likely to orgasm if they have sex on the 14th day of their cycle - Risk & reward!

The average female orgasm lasts for 5-8 seconds

The average male orgasm lasts for 3-5 seconds - Hey periods, hormones, childbirth we have got to have some perks!

When you begin to climax take a deep breath, it almost carries the orgasm to all parts of your body & intensifies your pleasure.

Sex during your period can often lead to better orgasms as the vagina is swollen & more lubricated - Messy but fun & I'm sure your partner won't object to trying it out.

According to sex researchers there is such a thing as an Extended Massive Orgasm. Apparently this lasts for about one hour but needs loads of foreplay (about three hours) & extensive rubbing - I'm feeling numb in my nethers already!

The Tingle Tip

2009-02-17T09:37:00.003Z

We see many new sex toy ideas enter the market, some better than others! When it first entered adult stores The Tingletip was an innovation which has spawned many more vibrator/toothbrush products onto the scene. The tingletip is a small & discrete sex toy that simply replaces the head of a normal Braun Oral B toothbrush. The design provides strong clitoral stimulation & features a 'contra-rotational ' vibration concentrated at the small tip for precision clitoral massage.

The tingletip has firmly planted itself as a classic, winning 'Best Sex Toy' 2008 by readers of lesbian magazine DIVA & claiming 'Best in Test' by Cosmopolitan magazine in their sex toy review of last year.

Bitty Butt Plug for Beginners

2009-02-16T11:07:00.005Z

The Bitty Butt Plug is a fabulous beginners butt plug from Cupids Club who have launched a number of high quality, lower priced sex toys to the beginners market.

The Bitty Butt Plug is so petite & slim for the anal beginner with an easy to use looped handle.

There has been a definite upturn in anal sex toys sold to couples as anal experimentation is fast becoming the staple of many relationships.

This Butt Plug is phtalate free & skin friendly with the signature Cupids Club packaging to appeal to women & couples looking for superior sex toys on the market.

Sexy Outfits & Naughty Fantasies

2009-02-16T08:36:00.002Z

We all enjoy the benefits of sex toys in our relationships nowadays but extending those sexual props to sexy outfits & dressing up can really help bring your sexy fantasies to life.

According to the statistics the top roles for fantasy play are:

47% of women fantasise about Firemen - Us girls love the thought of greasing their poles

54% of men get turned on of thoughts of Nurses- Our top selling sexy outfit

1.7% of women confess to fantasies of politicians - Lets assume thats more WestWing than Westminster!

6.5% of women fantasise about Traffic Wardens - perhaps its the challenge of getting him to relinquish your ticket.

0.8% of women fantasise about Milkman - Something to do with the early morning call?

Sex Lubricant & the Stats

2009-02-15T17:07:00.003Z

Many use a sex lubricant for a number of reasons but what is our perception of the long standing lube?

16% of women associate sex lubricant with the menopause - The decrease in oestrogen at this time can make your vagina more dry & sexual lubricant can help to ease the way.

47% of people think that Sex Lubricant makes sex less painful - If sex is painful dryness could only be one factor & its always best to see your GP to determine the cause.

63% associate sex lubricant with anal sex - True lube is an absolute essential to anal sex please do not embark on anal penetration without it!

75% of adults believe that sex lubricants are only used for vaginal dryness - Sex lubricant can be use for foreplay, masturbation, massage & a sex tip to remember is to squeeze lube into your hand & masturbate your man it will feel fantastic!

Have a Sexy Valentine

2009-02-13T10:16:00.003Z

Valentines day doesn't have to be all about hearts & flowers, instead many couples first thoughts turn to some quality climax inducing sex. Stay at home and create your own sex retreat with toys, lubes & sexy outfits.

Run a hot bath & scatter in some rose petals, experiment with some juicy lubricant (free sachets are available from IDlube.co.uk, stay in & watch a naughty film together or take in it turns to read some erotic fiction to get your juices flowing. Stay in & indulge yourselves in great valentines day sex & don't forget to use all your sex toys as props for some quality time together.

Make the effort to don a sexy outfit, its not everyday you get the chance for stockings & suspenders so go for it (you feel super sexy too) Choose delectable finger food & feed each other before indulging in the ultimate sexy feast of each other.

The ceramic dildos - Sensual art?

2009-02-12T20:14:00.005Z

We have taken delivery today of a completely new genre of sex toy in The Boudoir today - The ceramic dildo. Scepticism was abound as the very firm & cool texture of ceramic didn't immediately correlate with the use of a dildo.

Lovemoiselle call their ceramic dildo's 'sensual art' & art they certainly are. The smooth lines & decorative motif on the dildo shaft make the phallic beauties true show pieces. The ceramic dildo does indeed consist of a higher quality material with presentation that is truly design led.

I am already bias in that glass dildos have never appealed but the ceramic on the Lovemoiselle toys feels more organic & silky smooth without the glacial cool of a glass dildo.

The silky smooth surface of the dildos is also non-porous making it extremely hygienic & the durability of the ceramic means they are dildos to last a lifetime.

Ok I'm persuaded to give one a try & I must say that it warms in your hand very quickly - already I'm coming around!

FunFactory going mainstream

2009-02-11T15:08:00.004Z

FunFactory the much loved sex toy manufacturer has big plans to launch its products directly to consumers this year. FunFactory are best known for the Sinnflut which was stocked by Ann Summers for a time as well as the Layaspot & Smartballs.

Although not the cheapest sex toys on the market, FunFactory certainly produce some the best in terms of material & design.

The company have taken out a full page advert in Company magazine for February with a sealed insert with tips on masturbation to be seen by an estimated 250,000 people. Its good to see a sex toy manufacturer take its product to the mainstream market & it only benefits the customer in that they quickly learn there are many more avenues to buy quality product that put Ann Summers sex toys prices to shame.

Kama Sutra Get Away Kit

2009-02-09T20:29:00.002Z

We are inundated with valentines orders at the moment & judging by the products & sexy outfits flying out of the door you are all planning some good times over the coming weekend.

It is always a popular choice to get away for a naughty weekend over Valentine period especially if a willing family member will take the kids. Kama Sutra have launched their own seductive get away kit for such an occasion & we loved it as soon as it arrived through our doors.

The soft carry case is packed with petite pleasures such as French Vanilla Crème Body Soufflé, Vanilla Crème Oil of Love, Sweet Honeysuckle Honey Dust with a feather applicator, Love Liquid and a Romance Candle. Slipping it into your luggage is effortless & discreet with lots of seductive lotions & potions to keep you cosy in your hotel room all afternoon.